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vinny
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My next trip to LOS will be my second and in between my trips I recommended the country (on the whole) to a good male friiend of mine.
Anyway he went last year, travelled around, and on occasions paid for a few bar girls. Then met this 'special' bar-girl!
To cut a long story short he came back to the UK, lasted 3 months then went back out having sold his flat etc etc.
He now intends to have a house built (for a modest sum) I must admit, but of course it seems it has to be in her name. Now, generally, he is no fool, but love is blind as most of us know. But, can anyone tell me of the possible chances of this being a 'love' decision from the girls point of view.
I don't want him to get scammed or a broken heart; but would hate it 10 times more if he got both!
I will be seeing him in the UK when he needs to return to UK for a week or two in September. Then we plan to go back out there together mid September; when I guess I will then meet this 'special' girl.
Please advise!
vinny
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:11 pm on Aug. 5, 2002
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Deleted Member
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I've seen this go wrong a lot of times.
If you're friend really wants to build a house, there
are certain constructions which let you own the house(or actually the land underneath it) by your own company.
Let him talk to a lawyer.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:23 am on Aug. 6, 2002
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rami
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Ohhh,plz falling in love with TG,and even worse with BG.Tell him just escape from there,it's a trap,everyone that stay in Thailand long enough,and meet lot of TG knows this.She'll stay with him till she reach her personal goals-money,house,passport,whatever.After she will go drink and f_ck arround,and when he'll call her:"Hi,where are you?"-She'll tell:"I'm staying with my friends,don't you worry I'm not drunk honey...go sleep".
Period.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:12 am on Aug. 6, 2002
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Root Rat
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Vinny, ask your friend if he is willing to put his life savings on the 500 to 1 shot at the Grand National. The odds that he&'s not going to get burnt here are about the same.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:25 am on Aug. 6, 2002
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Jumping Jack
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If you scroll to the top of this page there is a icon on the right hand side for emailing posts to a friends
If he is your mate spend a hour or two going through this forum and email him the reports that you find about this.
Also get him to read the stickman web site. Not the trash that stickman writes but the readers submission section. There is about 100 stories there and about 75% deal with this matter
I do not know your friend or his girl but I will say this with full confidence
HE IS f_ckED sooner or later but for sure f_ckED
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:02 am on Aug. 6, 2002
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chrisboy
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vinny,
if i were u, i gonna talk sense into my buddy!!! but we all knows he's never gonna listen, at this stage, he's not only blinded by love but deaf too!!!!
since his coming back to Uk on Sep, why don u ask your friend to hire someone to check on her and her background? sorry to be rude, but we just wanna know what the F#@k shes up to when your friend is not around!!!
this idea may sound stupid and expensive, but its better than losing all hislifes' saving in the end, not to mention a broken heart!!
sorry i do not know of any private investigators company. maybe some other bros can help u, or may i suggest u check it out with Thaipraviteeye, i've not meet him though, but i've found that he has been very helpful with his infos and advises to all in this site. TPE, what do u think??
well, seeing is beliving....and u cant hide the truth forever!! what we want in the case of your friend, is to find out the truth soonest!! if the TG is truely and sincelely in love with your friend and not after his $$$$$, then i'll give them my heartiest blessing!
regards,
chrisboy
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:19 am on Aug. 6, 2002
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Groundpounder
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Another useful resource that clearly states the different cultural expectations of a farang and BG is the Freelance Bar's web site: (http://www.freelancerbar.com:/Girls/girls.html)
For a worst-case scenario, Stephen Leather's free novel "Private Dancer" (in Adobe Acrobat format) is hard to beat: (http://www.stephenleather.com/unpub.html)
But having said all that, I've had an on and off relationship with a TG (not a BG) for eighteen years (!) ÝShe's one of the most honest, straightforward and loving people I know, regardless of race or culture. Ý
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:53 am on Aug. 6, 2002
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vinny
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I am so grateful, for all the help given here so far. I must admit, it is generally what I expected to hear, but the clarity and experience of you guys behind your words is easy to feel. I cannot email this topic to my pal at the moment because the girl is always by 'his-side' he tells me.
Of course, on his return to UK I will at the right moment (I wish!), get him to read this topic and just hope he has enough sense left to accept the information is to enable him to rationalise the whole situation.
Interesting comment about buying land through a company, can anyone tell me where I can get more info on this.
Also the idea of hiring someone to watch her movements sounded callous at first to me, but nevertheless, it is obviously a sound way of being sure (at least for the time-being).
Anyway, once again, thanks to you all and for the links to other sites of reference - I will check them all.
Anyone elses experiences also most welcome.
This is a really excellent site, and I sure hope to meet some of you guys on my next trip.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:08 am on Aug. 6, 2002
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chasingwhtrabitz
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I have to agree with all the posts that I have read . If he is serious aout moving to Thailand there are many options for buying a home that does not include it being put in the girlfriends name . First he can finance the home . If things dont work out hes only got what he has sank into it in payments which is way less than rent would be anyways . Take the rest of his money and put it in an interest bearing acct. in the UK . Do not let him jump in head first and outright buy a house and land . I have a TG and not a BG and Ive spoken with her dad a few times on the subject of buying a home and land and he says there are many ways around the law so I can have it put in my name . He is a westeren educated investigator for the Thai police so I assume he knows what he is talking about . Even being her dad he never once mentioned putting a place in her name . There are lots of options that do not include the bar girl hitting her form of the lottery by a farrang buying a house for her .
Secondly when he comes back to the Uk definately have someone take a look in at her activities while he is gone . Does your friend speak Thai ? If not just have him take another farrang out with them one night who does and not let her know and tell her to invite some friends along . You will really get to know exactly what she is telling her friends about you . I can also reccomend Thaiprivateeye . My girl thinks hes an evil bastard because he tells the truth to the farrang boyfriends about what there BG girlfriends are doing when they are away . He seems to be the grinch that stole the BGs ATM "farrang" . If nothing works , what doesnt kill us only makes us poorer..............
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:07 pm on Aug. 6, 2002
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Dave
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Vinny
There are so many stories about TG's/BG's getting their hooks into farangs and then things going wrong then it should be very worrying.
The previous advise is all good stuff, but the bottom line is he should give himself a lot more time before getting into any deal that will cost him his shirt. What happens to his emotions is another story.
That said, a friend of mine was seeing a girl for 3 years during his many trips to LOS. He said she was a hairdresser, but he met her in Pattaya although she was from Chiang Mai. That may make her a BG. Eventually he married her in LOS and she is now in UK and has been here for 2 years. They seem quite happy. So it is not all bad news.
I doubt your friend would accept any warnings at the moment anyway 'cos he will still be thinking with his balls and not his brain. But if you can pursuade him to take some time then you would be giving him your best shot.
Dave
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:45 pm on Aug. 6, 2002
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