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jibblies
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Quote: from Joe Wood on 4:16 pm on July 3, 2010
"............... If anything I'm surprised she hasn't obtained a sponsor before now. I suggest we enjoy her company while we can..............."
Upon first getting acquainted with a bar or other establishment or even a particular lady ( both of which can take a longer time than one imagines ) and wondering why a certain lady hasn't been snapped up before now, it can often be that there already is a boyfriend, husband, lover, sponsor, partner or two or three or even that the lady, having already been saddled with a youngster or two or three by past associations ) just doesn't want a man in her life right now nor the potentially added complications.
...or it can be that the lady is psychologically averse to having a relationship with a farang, pigeon-holing farangs as 'customers', cattle. It's easier to divide their lives into 'customer-farang-who-knows-their-past' and
'Thai-who-doesn't-even-know-their-job-and-won't-remind-them-of-it'. They can lead different lives in their heads this way.
Or it could simply be that the girl is more interested in accumulating money and chatting with friends than having a relationship with a farang...
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:15 am on July 5, 2010
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jibblies
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Quote: from Joe Wood on 10:34 am on July 4, 2010
But in the instance of that occurance, the troubles begin from the start with a very high hurdle.........
...................for what girl can begin to trust a customer who has wandered at some time into her shop or bar, him having visited many in the past.................
...............and what man can begin to trust a lady who has been working in a massage parlour or a bar for any length of time.
Add to that...
...what man can begin to trust a lady who has been working in a massage parlour or a bar for any length of time in a place where she gave up the choice of accepting or turning down a customer. Where she didn't care who she serviced...
In my opinion, the girls who choose to work in a place where they service all-comers reveal a certain mentality. I.e. They don't care about who they service. Unlike gogo girls or beer bar girls, they willingly give up the choice of customer. They're not interested in any kind of relationship to start with. They're all business. Much harder nuts to crack...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:22 am on July 5, 2010
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Meatywsg
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Quote: from jibblies on 4:22 pm on July 5, 2010
In my opinion, the girls who choose to work in a place where they service all-comers reveal a certain mentality.
I couldn't agree more with that. Nail on the head. MP gals have no choice, and they more often than not make you feel amazing both physically and mentally.
I have a very good friend who married a gal from a famous oily, no matter what I did I could not dissuade him, he sited reasons like 'she makes me feel so good', 'the sex is amazing', 'the way her eyes light up when she sees me'....and all of these moments occurred in her workplace.
They've been together 2.5yrs now, but I still feel i'll be picking up the pieces at some point.
I guess we could have a new rule, never marry a Thai Pro, but if you absolutely must, don't marry one from an MP ! Programmed to lie from the get go.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:56 am on July 5, 2010
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andysensei74
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Regarding the photoshopping. Which ladies are photoshopped? Do anyone know if Pond is? She looks kind of cute (in the pic at least)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:39 am on July 5, 2010
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Tyler Durdin
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I say it's a crap shoot no matter where you pick up the girl (divorce rate in US is 50% and those aren't even hookers). Women are crazy no matter what, just the p4p ones are even more damaged goods from the get go. When things are good, things are great but when things start to go bad, you will look at her (and remind her) that she was a hooker and she will look at you (and know) you were a dirty butterfly that couldn't get a girl on your own. I know of plenty of p4p marriages that work out but I know of a whole lot more where they don't. Sure MP girls are programmed to lie to every guy but look at the lying/cheating that gogo girls do on a nightly basis as well. FL'rs are known to tell a fib or two as well. It's p4p, everybody (johns included) lies, the beauty of p4p is that you don't have to deal with real relationship issues, so why cross that line?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:40 am on July 5, 2010
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S M E G M A
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LOL. And what about those who were former sex-workers and later on get married without the guy knowing? Then they would also qualify as as "damaged" and crazier (than a regular woman)... how does it change things that the guy doesn't know about her former past? Would it be better not to know? LOL.
How do you know for sure your darling never engaged in P4P before you met her?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:37 am on July 5, 2010
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Joe Wood
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Well, from whatever experiences and/or obvious pain that members are writing from, I think we run the risk of mentally giving every P4P girl a tar and feather treatment.
Don't we all, then, deserve the same, if the dreaded finger of guilt is being pointed and the question of responsibility is being asked ? I am surprised at this.
As Tyler D. pointed out failure in relationships happen all over the place within the industry cohorts and without. I would extend that by mentioning yet again that there are just as damaged male and female goods in and out of the industry and just because a girl or lady hasn't worked in it, doesn't mean to say that she is less than mercenary or ruthless than the worst in it.
Conversely, I would say that just because a lady has worked in a bar, massage parlour or blow-job facility, or as an FL, doesn't necessarily preclude her from having the honesty and trustworthiness to successfully enter a meaningful relationship and work towards its complete accomplishment.
At the same time, how many guys do you know who have the ability to commit completely and exclusively to one good woman ? I would think, not many.
It's so easy to look down on others. Can I also look down on my mother, my sister or my daughter just as easily, or my father,brother or son for that matter ?
In Nature, a life-long or exclusive relationship between a couple is rare.
We, men and woman are only human.
Both State and religion, for their own purposes of health and order and control have instigated the rubber-stamping of marriage. This sanctioned by others wedlock contract til death is a very recent thing in the evolution of Man.
My apologies to Tulip and its girls who possess such generous and welcoming orifices.
And now,
back to the business at hand (?)...............................
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:15 pm on July 5, 2010
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princeinnocent
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good job. it is always dangerous to generalize. Also it keeps maintaining my illusions, because I just got a call from somebody from the industry I am seeing regularly because there is the impression we both enjoy time together: "Please send money by tommorrow, to pay bill". Disregarding the real circumstances it put me off heavily.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:28 pm on July 5, 2010
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formen
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Smegma,
I'm positive that guys don't know about some former sex-workers. I slept with two mia chows this last week whom were either waiting for their farang boyfriend to come or were being sent out to go live with him somewhere. One of the girls told me that their farang husband thinks they worked in accounting and another in marketing. I guess they weren't lying, but both worked as coyote dancers before and did side jobs. Both of these girls carry themselves different then your regular Nana bargirl, so a farang has a more difficult time discerning whether they are a former sex-worker.
On your question of whether it would better not to know? Thats a loaded question. If the girl acts the same throughout the relationship and he knows what he's getting, whats the difference. On the contrary, former sex workers are known to make a good first impressions, and later suck the life out of you.
Hey Tyler,
Sorry you hit my nerve, nothing personal. Most guys from Hawaii are fooled thinking that p4p(around Suk) is a beautiful thing.
I did spend some money on a bottle of wine for both of these girls at my place, but that was it. The experience, with most taken care of women, is something to behold. Think of an a girl in an all girls Catholic high school. I couldn't have any sex-worker to do what they did to me.
These girls know I have a girlfriend, so they never bother me. I see both when I want, and I never charge them for my services. If these same girls would like Thai guys, they might get charged 300 baht for sex, or 30% of their take, if he's a boyfriend. So I feel they are getting a great deal and me too.
That a beautiful thing, and it happens all the time if you live here.
As stated earlier, I had to mention Hawaii since so many Hawaii bros have been coming to visit me recently, falling in love, and sending these sex-workers money. It started out as a beautiful thing for them, but now they are lost, and confused when these girls dont answer their phones, and ask me to track them down.
Cheers!
formen
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:52 pm on July 5, 2010
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Formen, my point is that we certainly must be dealing in regular life with women who were, or continue being, involved in P4P and we just do not know. I am not thinking about your regular go-go girl, but about regular freelancers. But even those, when they move on and leave the business, they do not carry a "former sex-worker" sign so that we spot them easily.
I know a couple of models who years later I find that they work(ed) as high class freelancers. They have boyfriends and husbands who I know. And as they do not know that I know (supposedly I do not know), I cannot bring up the subject. Nothing in their behavior would make one suspect anything.
Where are all those P4P girls from 20 years ago? Or 40 or 60? They eventually became someone's wife, mother and grandmother. Maybe we interact with a few and have no idea.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:49 pm on July 5, 2010
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