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bkkz
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Quote: from Tyler Durdin on 3:13 pm on May 27, 2010
For example, I have a session with Ice and then graphically describe it afterwards and call her a "filthy pornstar whore ". Now she is on the site and sees my comment and puts 2 & 2 together
That's the reason why you should be as ambiguous as possible if you going into graphic details of your experience. You don't want them to connect the dots and figure who's who in here do you?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:25 am on May 27, 2010
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Joe Wood
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I agree entirely.
Some guys like to write detailed reports, but if so,then let it remain non-attributable either way, so there is annonymity for both the girl and the guy.
Yes, I suppose we are talking about safety and respect and honour here even though we may not care to call them by those names.
Nic also touched on a very important point which is pivotal to the issue. Much as some guys like to refer to the girls here as LBFMs, they are not machines and contrary to popular opinion wont f*** just anybody.
They are human beings just like you, with likes and dislikes and feelings and the ability to be generous or not depending on how they feel about a guy.
The point that Nic touched on is that what one girl felt easy or good about doing with one customer, doesn't mean it's on the menu for another and so cannot be expected by the general body of customers.
It is the girl's choice if she extends her basic service to include further delights whether charged for or not and we, as customers have no right to expect the same generosity extended towards us, just because we happen to wander into their shop or bar.
A lot of what comes as extras is sparked off by the chemistry struck at the time between the girl and the guy.
A different aspect of this is when a guy tastes the delights of service and a good dollop of generous further delicacies and eventually hooks up with the girl to live with him, only to find that the more personal relationship doesn't offer the same fruits.
This relates back to a P4P girl's concept of self and function within the work environment. The work is the work and she is working in that field as best she can.
Neither the work nor her functioning in it has nothing to do with her. She and her private life away from work are as far removed from one another as a neon sign is to the village and country school where she grew up.
It also forces an acknowledgment by the guy that he is not the same guy when he walks into a bar or shop to avail of services,as he is at home developing a personal relationship on very different foundations and with very different expectations.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:59 pm on May 27, 2010
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Valetta
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Joe,I agree.Very well said.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:17 pm on May 27, 2010
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Quim
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I concur Mr. Wood, very nicely stated. And we would all do well to follow BK's advice. For our own sake, and for theirs.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:15 pm on May 27, 2010
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Tyler Durdin
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Quote: from bkkz on 10:25 pm on May 26, 2010
That's the reason why you should be as ambiguous as possible if you going into graphic details of your experience. You don't want them to connect the dots and figure who's who in here do you?
But then why are we writing on this board for? Are we writing our experiences with the fear that the girl will read it or are we writing to share as much info we can with the brothers? The answer to each of those questions will change the content, quality and accuracy of the posts. And with ambiguous statements, there is always emails/pms to get the accurate info if needed so what's the point? Are we headed for a bland forum that you have to work harder to get the info/answers you seek? By showing the girls who is saying what, the forum ultimately suffers as it gets watered down versions of info because of the fear of who may read it. I come to this forum to get accuate and up-to-date info when I need it but at the same time I have the maturity that what I read isn't gospel and "YMMV".
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:01 pm on May 27, 2010
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Quim
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TD, I read BK to say we should be "ambiguous" about who the girl was if we are going to be graphic about our experience with her. Meaning, leave out not only her name, but also distinguishing details that would allow her or others to identify her. And the same goes for your "unique" experience with her if something happened that would allow her to identify you. But I don't think he means be ambiguous about your experience otherwise.
I include graphic detail and brutal honestly in my reports to give the reader on this forum an accurate picture of what can happen in the P4P scene in LOS, without wanting to suggest that this girl will necessarily give you the same experience. There are always exceptions to this rule, such as with Pim, where I felt it was appropriate to advertise her fine services. But as a general rule I do not name the girls for all the reasons stated above.
Now, I think there are two levels to this. One is whether you care if SHE can identify you, the other is whether you care if others can identify HER. I have no problem with general statements the effect that [NAME] was great, or [NAME] had a bad attitude. That is helpful generally. But I do agree that we should not lead others to expect/demand that the girl repeat whatever she did with us, with them. Because as Wood so eloquently put it, "service" is not one size fits all.
Personally I am always more concerned about protecting them against unreasonable expectations, than protecting my identity. Not that I ever advertise to them that I am going to write about the experience. But I am generally comfortable with what I write about them, or I wouldn't write it. Meaning, if they do put two and two together, that's fine with me.
I think if someone is counting on none of the girls, or their managers, ever reading this forum, well, then they are kidding themselves. Because it happens.
By the way, I don't apply the same rules to the place itself. I see no reason, most of the time, to obscure the venue itself, good or bad.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:53 pm on May 27, 2010
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bkkz
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Quote: from Quim on 11:53 am on May 28, 2010
But I don't think he means be ambiguous about your experience otherwise.
Yes, you are right about that.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:07 am on May 28, 2010
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poskat
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Someone went to Mango massage.
He picked Miss X.
In the shower she.... and he... twice.
on the bed she massaged his..... like he never had before, even... his......
amazingly she could...... with her.....
but she didnt.... or.....
she is highly recommended.
YMMV
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:27 am on May 28, 2010
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madfrog
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Very good report bro Poskat, very ambiguous, but why did you mention Mango at all, they might not be happy about this and some bro might feel bad 
Madfrog
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:41 am on May 28, 2010
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poskat
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Good point.
I meant so say "someone MAY have gone to Mango massage"
wait, I cant say that as there possibly could be a lady named MAY there.....
Ok, final version:
"someone MIGHT have gone to Mango massage"
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:29 am on May 28, 2010
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