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> If it is the last thing I do on this earth I will make the bitch pay. I do
> not care if it takes 10 million baht to do it. Believe me when I say that
> I will get my 1,200 baht back or else I will pay 10 million baht to have
> justice be done.
So, what we have here is one heavily immature guy, to the point of being neurotic about it, who decides to 'take it out' on some BG that he felt slighted by, by spending 6,600 Baht to finally bang her?
Yeah, that sure 'showed her'.
Add to that, your conclusion that 'none' of the BGs are worth spending time with, or that it's worth treating them like friends, because of this one failure (on your part, not hers) - and finally that wonderful post just prior - where you demonstrate that clearly you've run into a girl that is nice, and seriously shows her appreciation, only to brush it off, and only give her credit for her 'memory'.
You got some serious emotional issues (touched upon masterfully by Minder, it seems) that you might want to learn to deal with, before you keep holding every other girl responsible for your own issues.
It doesn't matter if you've been coming to LOS for 6 days, or 6 years - your reaction to this situation (which happens to everyone) illustrates your immaturity. I'm sure this kind of thing happens (hasn't happened to me - yet, unless you count my Koh Chang experience), but holding the girl responsible, or holding ALL girls responsible is imature at best
Yes, there are girls out there that are bitches, but based on your personality that has surfaced in this thred, I am far more tempted to believe that in both your cases, the girls noticed that you're simply not the kind of guy they want to spend time with. Bummer for you, but maybe if you approached the girls with less of a sense of entitlement, you'd do better - then again, what do I care, really, as I don't seem to have the problems that you ascribe to being endemic in all girls. I doubt you'd try to learn from this - your kind never does.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:23 pm on Feb. 15, 2007
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dirty guru
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Face..............Thats what they call it.
Even bar girls like to think that their skills of femine charms is what got you.
Not the little size 6 frame and low cut top and shorts.
Its too long and hard to brief experience of this nature fast.
But quick tip.
Befriend two girls and forn indecesion.
Make sure their friends (or friendly)
Get both their numbers and walk.
Text an hour later and say "i really liked you both"......"i cant make up my mind who to choose, I am seeking a wife, and new at this, what should I do?
Send to both.
Repeat in three bars.
You are likely to get response along the lines of "'i talk friend no probwham we both can do, and make party"
Or...."i am is better friend she have man already"
Pass on the later.
Add "i want special things and marry girl makes happy alot me"
Its childs play after a while............you will learn.
Good luck.
Ps for the guy who wants to bugger the girls (because of face ) a much greater percent will on face to face say no.
The percentage on texting late at 1am who tentively agree is better than 50% again repeat in a few bars /go gos.
Too easy.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:52 pm on Feb. 15, 2007
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MickTheKick
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Guys relax, bitpump understood and overcame his anger and some of the posts here might have helped as well. Mine probably didn’t help, but thank god we have some Minders and others around… 
And the 2nd act of the story explains the 1st: he's truly fond of that particular girl and so her refusal was a major blow on that particular night. And his happiness later on with the same girl is just another example of what mysterious ways love and joy can go in the LOS. Bitpump, good on ye…
I hope you go pumping all your bits and bytes… 
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:20 pm on Feb. 15, 2007
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Yurune
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sounds like classic rejection.... the fine line between love and hate....
What you gonna do with the other 9,993,400 THB?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:30 pm on Feb. 15, 2007
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2>If one visits a bar & takes out a BG, is there any way that he can select another lady from the same bar, without all hell breaking loose and the original lady throwing a monster tantrum?
Well, yes, of course you can, as long as you are open about being a BIG butterfly FROM THE VERY FIRST TIME YOU GO TO THIS BAR.
Take one girl you like, be nice to her and pay her well (not too well, because it will set up expectation for every other girl from this bar!), then go back to the same bar later. IF girl N°1 is around she will come to sit with you and say hello, say hello, offer a drink, then tell girl number one:
1) "I want two girls tonight, please you choose who come with me & you!" IF she decline (unlikely, she allready know you, you are nice to her and pay well, not so easy to find such a customer so she want a repeat instead of "hunting" for a new customer who might be not so nice!) just say "Newermind, I try new girl tonight, please call this one for me!" (remember, big smile, be nice and give a a little tip for doing so)
or
2) "Tonight I want someone different (let say if she is very slim you say you want one with "Nom Yai", or if she is petite you want a taller girl), and ask her to help you find "good girl" and of course make clear she can have a tip if she help you.
You now have a "friend" in the bar who will help you (for a small tip) getting the girls you want! Save a lot of time and money, and also a lot of drama too!
If you repeat the process a few time in the same bar, taking one time a girl, one time another, then two together, you will soon get known as a big butterfly, but also as a nice guy, so everyone will be happy to see you and no one will "loose face".
And if a girl start doing a tantrum (can allway happen!) she will soon be calmed by the other girls & the mamasan who will defend you because you are "a good man"
Madfrog
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:55 am on Feb. 16, 2007
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Baquawn
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Bitpump,
You should have just rationalized it all from the start, and thought of it as you just rented the company of two girls for 1200, for a few hours at a normal thai style night club. If you spent the same amount of time on Soi Cowboy you would have probably gotten milked for LD's, and drinks for mamasan, which would have been a lot more then what you spent at dance fever, including the bar fines.
No need to get all pissed off, there are plenty of other girls to bring you good times. If you are trolling the GG's you are bound to run into some bad apples along the way.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:20 am on Feb. 16, 2007
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from bitpump on 8:57 am on Feb. 16, 2007
I really liked this girl at a Thai massage place (of course I banged her)
of course you did, and you are also showing your level of sexual maturity with this statement 
some idiot farang who $500 doesn't mean anything
well, you're at least half right, 555
does anyone else thinks that this might just be an alter-ego of PenBelly's ?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:01 am on Feb. 16, 2007
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Dickin Situ
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I don't think his alter-ego would allow himself to be cast in such a vulnerable light.
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As for this thread so far, we have had some very good advice and a few rather unintentionally cruel ones.
And as someone pointed out, the origianl poster had the tenacity to leave his posts unedited and to stand by each one as they were addressed by the brotherhood.
I don't agree with his initial reaction. But then, by now, I don't think he does either.
As MickTheKick pointed out, he overcame his initial reaction to being let down, besides eventually allowing himself to experence what he had been after in the first place.
The point made about making absolutely sure that the girl understands what you want from her before you leave the bar and even before you pay the bar-fine is ESSENTIAL.........right down to which toes you are going to suck....... (.Opps, sorry. )
If you bar-fine, all you are doing is buying her out of the bar for a couple of hours or if long-time, until the morning at the time agreed with the girl.
If you do not negotiate with her the finer details of your intentions and just bar-fine her on a short-time understanding and then go dancing, the two or more hours may be up by the time you finish dancing.
That was your choice of using the time, not hers.
She may have agreed to go with you short-time, knowing that she could 'fit you in' before her next arranged appointment.
I think another thing to remember is that there are many visitors to this country who go to bars, young as well as senior citizens and the infirm who bar-fine a girl long or short time and just want the company, nothing sexual or not fully.
Bar-girls, even in the blow-job bars, will tell you that they do go with guys who hardly hold them around the waist or hold hands, let alone even touch them where it might count nor expect them to do the same. But that is something else.
So what I am saying is that just because you bar-fine on a short-time understanding, not having negotiated and agreed 'activities' or 'culminations' and then go dancing for the time paid for, there is no reason to assume that the girl thinks that you want her for anything else and from her point of view, customers are waiting or she does have to go feelancing, because time is money and they are working, and you've used up the time that you asked for. No problem....or it shouldn't be.
Visiting or living here, each one of us is surrounded daily by numerous possibilities of falling into countless pits of cross-cultural, cross-language, cross-non verbal communication misunderstandings....and most of them we are not even conscious of.
Take myself, for instance. On second thoughts, I withdraw that remark.
But there is a little piece of advice that someone once told me that goes something like 'Look before you leap'. The looking part implies a stage or stages of thinking about a problem and possibly the plotting out of a few alternative responses or directions to take. At least that is what I remind myself every time I'm crawling out of one of these pits.
No one is perfect and we've all made mistakes. The pontificating incliniation of one or two members only seems ungenerous merely because the flavour of their tone indicates that they have also gone down the very same pit and can now look down into yours. But on the whole, they are well intentioned.
I've just got to keep in mind in this very busy city, that the time I have left, whether it be five minutes or 50 years, I will most definitely enjoy the wonderfulness of life, the warmth and goodness of the humanity that surrounds me and the golden moments. I will not be cheated out of that by anything.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:56 am on Feb. 17, 2007
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sai tai
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Quote: from Dickin Situ on 12:20 pm on Feb. 17, 2007
If you bar-fine, all you are doing is buying her out of the bar for a couple of hours or if long-time, until the morning at the time agreed with the girl.
If you do not negotiate with her the finer details of your intentions and just bar-fine her on a short-time understanding and then go dancing, the two or more hours may be up by the time you finish dancing.
That was your choice of using the time, not hers.
She may have agreed to go with you short-time, knowing that she could 'fit you in' before her next arranged appointment.
Well said! And my thoughts exactly when I first read this thread.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:17 am on Feb. 17, 2007
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from Dickin Situ on 12:20 pm on Feb. 17, 2007
She may have agreed to go with you short-time, knowing that she could 'fit you in' before her next arranged appointment.
so bitpump was BIFFed before he even came into her bar, LOL
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:30 am on Feb. 17, 2007
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