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Sporadic,
I had the same concern and I think I'm a bit more sensitive than some down there. Rin is a pro. She reads your reaction perfectly. No pain for me at all, when I felt a bit uncomfortable she read it immediately and backed off a bit or changed what she was doing. There is no way I can think to describe this other than say you have to try it to understand it. If you don't like it, tell her to stop. You will not be investing that much for the experience. My bet is, you won't tell her to stop.
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Posted on: 3:42 pm on Mar. 18, 2008
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Sporadic
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Thanks for the tip (sorry!)
My concerns run deep, sit wrong in the car, ache.
I had a Lt (almost GF) provider get a little too frisky with the ball sucking once and I was in pain for 6 hours.
My fear is that by the time she reads my reaction, it will be too late.
Since you have pointed out a real pro though, I will give it a go next visit
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Posted on: 4:01 pm on Mar. 18, 2008
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Joe Wood
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Quote from above :
...."........the line between fun and being doubled over in pain is razor thin."
I suppose in this context, that could be quite true.
I enjoy a good balls massage, although I must admit that for me this includes a massaging of the cock and other areas of the genitalia, by any lady, preferably younger than me, on second thoughts far younger than me, who knows how to do it, not necessarily “properly’ but who is knowledgeable and skilled enough to give me enormous pleasure over a sufficiently long period of time and yet sensitive and aware enough to bring me to the crests of climax but then to ease off on the rudder and the main sail to let me ride the current until the next wave and to protract this method until the inevitable tsunami washes over me….
Just because one lady does it well and/or correctly ( for me ) in one establishment, doesn’t mean to say that the rest of the crew are equally skilled or knowledgeable.
I think most guys would agree with you there, about the pleasure and the pain if they’ve ever tried to cum multiple times in one night or day. One reaches a point. But I suppose here, we are talking of the anticipation of an untried experience by a newbie.
If he has ever sustained a kick in the balls during sport or off the field for that matter, or in a hurried state to get somewhere fast, has accidentally caught the skin of his genitalia in the zip of his trousers whereby if he pulls the zip up, it will tear the skin or if he pulls the zip down, it will inflict equal pain,, the memory of being caught in that dilemma and the pain is burnt deep.
And for someone who hasn't tried a balls massage or who is ultra-sensitive in that area, for the first time, the thoughts, before the lady begins, would be rather akin to a situation of placing your balls in the mouth of a shark. In your right mind, you’d never do it.
But, having made the decision and the brave step into an establishment and laid yourself and your balls bare, most girls, though not all, are sensitive to your vulnerability and if they've done it before in any trained or untrained fashion, have at least one eye open for the startled rabbit and alarmed look of someone who is flinching and contorting in a trapped way and expressing a look, if not an ear for the heard or silent shriek, of intense pain.
Not having been fondled or caressed before by a girl for any length of time in that area, might just give the new guy the feeling of being the laboratory frog pegged out on the board.
So, I understand the feelings of trepidation and fear of being castrated or crushed to death. For the first timer, this is only natural and in no way psychotic, merely self-preservational.
I must say that in all the years, I have only had one unfortunate occurrence which involved an over-weight, though cute and not so little girl who started off by putting her whole weight on my treasures and was only alarmed when she looked up at my tear-filled eyes, flaying arms, mouth gasping for breath, voice trapped, and purple face wincing in excruciating pain before she stopped.
New to the job ?
“Yes, I one day”
I surmised that she must have spent the last few months since school, in charge of the artificial insemination programme of the village buffalo herd and generously forgave her as she gave me a deep wai and proceeded with the blow-job suggested as fair compensation.
The balls massage aficionados of this and other boards purport to experience no pleasure during a balls massage if it is done “correctly” and the massage does not include touching the penis at all nor climaxing. In fact they say that climaxing even for some time after, is detrimental to the effects of the massage. This may very well be the authentic manner. But for me, I want the whole hog, in the manner of a true Mastermind Magnus Magnusson, “I’ve started…… ……….so I’ll finish”.
And the guys who go for this ‘real, original’ massage go for it, they say, for the rejuvenating qualities and the increased blood circulation of the area.
Well, of the hundreds of balls massages that I have had, maybe I haven’t had one of those ‘proper’ ones, because all of them, except the one mentioned before, were extremely pleasurable and most have made me climax in a most explosively long-lasting orgasm during which I seemed to ejaculate buckets. ( I exaggerate ) and the actual climax lasts for far longer.
Many oil massage places offer it and some specialize in it. To name a few : Kornwan on soi 22, Pink and Orient on soi 24, Love Teen, Teen 1 and Teen 3, and Dream on soi 33, Teen 2 on soi 24/1 and a couple on soi 31.
Not to run the risk of coming across another buffalo herder, when I want this particular pleasure, I usually pick a girl I reckon to have been in the job for some time and almost always inspect her hands before making my decision favouring the ones with small, delicate hands and avoiding the ones whose hands look as though they’ve been kneading dough half their lives.
There are signs to read in this.
So, I may not have experienced a ‘proper’ balls massage in my life, but then, when you can get this, who needs one ?
Rin at Hana on soi 22 is rumoured to be the reigning Queen of the balls massage although I suspect that the size of her breasts and the ways that she uses them has somewhat distracted her fans from a truly objective assessment. I have only experienced her massaging of my balls a few times and to me, her techniques do not stand out further than the best found elsewhere. But then, that’s just me. And I must admit, she’s bloody good.
I must confess that I too, on first opting years ago for this pleasure had fears of ending up as being eligible to be a member of the local castrati. But my fears were unfounded.
Now-a-days I am more than happy to place my balls in the mouth, hands or between the adequate breasts of most ladies. In fact soi 33 is an ideal place to rush out of the big screen sports bars during half-time to have a balls massage while the teams suck oranges in the dressing room. Anyone interested in joining me in petitioning the International Rugby Board to make half-time an hour long, please PM me.
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Posted on: 2:59 am on Mar. 20, 2008
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ely1959
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Joe certainly gets his last name from so much work in the trenches.
For my two cents I have to say his response offers the best objective information on choosing and making the decision for balls massage.
I am guilty of sounding super praises for Rin and frankly it is probably due to the fact that she has neve crushed my balls. I have found way too many women who claim to know balls massage think that crushing them somehow helps.
To me, what is key to a good balls massage is the technique on massaging the smooth muscles around the genitalia. That is certainly where Rin gets her reputation in my book. The last time I saw her I really only wanted her to help massage out the cramps I had from hound dogging so many women at B7. She knows how to move out the lactic acid down there, and I left ready for another round at the biergarten.
Nonetheless, I say print out Joe's advice and carry it to Soi 33. We all should begin searching for the next good one. Like a sage, he has given us all a roadmap to follow out to the next great balls massager.
Rin is getting beyond along in years. As even I posted in her thread--I think she might have another 5 or 10 years that she can survive on her technique alone. I think she may easily be approaching 50.
Let's be careful out there. And remember Joe's best words--look for expereince and small hands.
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Posted on: 4:19 pm on Mar. 20, 2008
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NicFrenchy
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Quote: from Joe Wood on 5:14 pm on Mar. 20, 2008
I have only experienced her massaging of my balls a few times and to me, her techniques do not stand out further than the best found elsewhere.
Please do share the names and Places where we can get equal to better than Rin Balls Massage... I am Very interested 
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Posted on: 7:06 pm on Mar. 20, 2008
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Joe Wood
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I have no idea as to where you might get a 'real', authentic, non-pleasureable, non-climaxing balls massage.
I have no interest ( yet ) in that particular type of massage since I find that my general health and genital blood circulation seem to be quite adequate to cope with the demands made on them, without the assistance of specialist massaging or the intake of pills or tablets.
If the truth be known, at times in the month, when the need grips me the most for sexual release and the feeling of being so over-powered by it sends me out into the sois and sub-sois of the city, and after emerging from my second massage of the day and looking round for where I might want to go next, I sometimes wish that there was a pill that had the reverse effect of Viagra and its likes.
( I have heard that the average farang wife can administer this effect at a distance of 6,000 miles, effortlessly.)
As for more places, well, to be fair, I have already mentioned a few to get on with.
But as for names, that is a different matter, for, as with full sex or with a blow-job, the mechanics of the experience is only the tip of the ice-berg. Some lady who will suit my liking with her particular techniques and more importantly attitude and personal approach, may not come near to giving you what you want. And the same goes for a fantastic deliverer that you experience. She may not give me the same at all.
The guys who go for blow-jobs will know what I mean. Its the difference between getting a blow-job at the Star of Light and eslewhere. No comparison at all.
It is down to chemistry and the electricity, however undetectable, that happens between the customer and the service provider that gives an experience of that extra glow and wholesome feeling of completion.
The other aspect of this, is the part-ache, part-excitement and pleasure that one gets in the search that ends with finding someone who is prepared to be good at it for you. Rewarding and satisfying....you leave not begrudging the amount of money that you have spent nor tipped. A job well done. Something that seajohn would equate to the Neanderthal hunter's scream of triumph in the night.
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Posted on: 3:12 am on Mar. 24, 2008
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seajohn
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You rang?
I agree, and in fact I would say that in respect to particularities, it is to some degree a psychological and "magical" satisfaction that we derive from particular venues and hostesses. Just like our ancient friends' dances after the hunt. It's a series of balances and chess moves inside a mind of images and sensuousnesses. Your bishop is captured?
Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhhhhrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted on: 9:32 am on Mar. 24, 2008
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msg4558
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Joe Wood
( I have heard that the average farang wife can administer this effect at a distance of 6,000 miles, effortlessly.)
Well said. But why are you singling out Farang Wives?? Any wife worth her salt will give the same impact whether it be a Farang, Asian, African or even a Gorilla's Wife?? They are a specie by themselves. Worth my 5 Satang.
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Posted on: 10:09 pm on Mar. 24, 2008
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Joe Wood
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Thanks msg4558 for that note of caution.
Fortunately, the experience of having a Gorilla's wife is outside my experience. I'll let you expound on those circumsances.
However whenyou say that.........."Any wife worth her salt will give the same impact............", I cannot agree.
A Gorilla's wife has been known,I am told, to throw bananas, whereas a Farang's wife usualy manages to choose something a lot harder and worth a lot more than 5 satang.
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Posted on: 4:17 pm on Mar. 25, 2008
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