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dotcom
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Cash in her air ticket & go get your truck back.
That is IF the truck is in your name. If NOT it ain't "Your" truck. (& it's a gone motherf***er).
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:59 am on May 17, 2005
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amexpat2001
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We all must pay for an education. Seems as if yours was not as expensive as some others. Learn the lesson well, and move on.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:52 am on May 17, 2005
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cardiffian
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i,ve learnt a thing or 2 about ex tbg,s I met a bg on my 1st trip to los 18months later she finally got a visa to live in the uk after she blew the 1st interveiw at the embassy on perpose I found out later..After liveing together in the uk for3 years of hell and me blowing money like I was the duke of westminster she left me one day takeing our 5 year old son with her ending up in a battered wife,s refuge to finish this tale make sure the bg you think about takeing back home with you is a nice girl and not a money grabbing,lying bitch not that i,m bitter p.s. at least when she went home she allowed me to buy my son off her before she left
Quote: from shoke on 7:19 am on May 16, 2005
She's an Isaan amateur.
She should have gone to Australia, married you, had the child there. The child would have got citizenship which can be dual.
Then, since she thinks she can lie well, allege you have become abusive and file for a domestic violence restraining order.
You're out of the home, her visa continues, she waits one year and files for divorce. With a child, she gets a good amount, let us say half, maybe more, perhaps even your house outright.
Wait a little longer, if she wants she can automatically get Australian citizenship, which can be dual, after just 2 years living there. This gives certain lifetime government benefits including right to return visa free any time she wants. She has full access to all Australian social security benefits.
Next, return to Thailand. A couple years all up, not working and very profitable thank you so much.
She's played her hand wrong settling for too little, and you're perhaps naive but lucky this time.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:29 am on May 17, 2005
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hypershade
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Jesus, lots of sad, bitter stories here. I might be among the youngest here, but I realized from my first contacts with TBG that they were just good for sex and nothing else – they don’t even speak decent English, how do you expect a decent relationship?
For the last time:
THEY ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES.
And you should treat the exceptions to the rule, as the rule.
Quod erat demonstrandum
(For Caronte: Not to be trusted, they are.)
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:38 am on May 17, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from hypershade on 7:32 am on May 17, 2005
but I realized from my first contacts with TBG that they were just good for sex and nothing else – they don’t even speak decent English, how do you expect a decent relationship?
For the last time:
THEY ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES.
And you should treat the exceptions to the rule, as the rule.
Somewhere on a bargirl forum, someone is writing the following about farang customers (in Thai, of course) :
... but I realized from my first contacts with farang bar-goers that they were just good for money and nothing else – they don’t even speak decent Thai, how do you expect a decent relationship?
For the last time:
THEY ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES.
And you should treat the exceptions to the rule, as the rule.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:25 am on May 17, 2005
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thailife
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I would like to offer a different opinion.... I know quite a few guys that have ended up marrying a BG. And guess what? Things are working out just fine, many of them have been married for 5-10 years.
BUT, I know a whole lot of other guys that it did not work out for, normally because one or both decided to f*** other people.
I look at it this way: I told my ex BG wife that if she ever f***ed with me I would go out and immediatly f*** EVERY friend she has. Then I said "and there are a million more girls I can have here". So what was my point? Well after 20 years of going to Asia I hit her where it counts. Face and money.
She knows she is replaceable. If she tows the line we will not have a problem. She knows I am not a sap I am not some love sick stupid man. My marraige is a bit like a business relationship. the family is taken care of, she is taken care of, she lives a good life, if she wants to rock the boat "go ahead"...... I love her but I am not stupid.
I also have been faithfull to her and she knows this. In discussions (if that is what you want to call them) I think the jist is if you f*** around on your girl, she sees no problem f***ing around on you. This is cultural.
But what the f*** do I know? I am just a middle aged horney white guy who figured out a long time ago that I only want to be with Asian girls. 18 and over please. And I will always be with Asian girls.
Oh, one last thing, I told my wide form day 1 that if she got fat, she's out. she knows this and has kept herself at 53 since I met her. Also, sex on demand from me, she cannot say no. the day she says no, is the day she is out. Simploe rules but I set it up like that day one.
Something else funny, a few years ago she tells me "I don't know why you farangs get serious with Isaan lady, we all ugly. Farang man stupid".... there you have it, it starts witht he fact that we go after girls that are rice farmers and they REALLY believe we are idiots.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:30 am on May 17, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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CG
ROFLMAO!
Thanks for pointing out that there are two sides to every coin. Trust is a two way street. Mostly the interaction between Punter and BG is solely a contract between the two where the guy gives the girl money in exchange for sex. If kept within those simple boundaries, the whole thing is straightforward.
The problems arise where the girls are just so incredibly good at blurring the edges and giving the impression that they have deeper feelings for the guy and he believes it and falls for her. Or maybe the guy does treat her so well that the girl genuinely does begin to have have real feelings for him.
Of course it is not impossible for a true loving relationship to develop between them and for them to be very happy together. But the odds are stacked against it, often because the guy cannot hack it that when he's 1000's of miles away, she might be screwing with another farang. Even if he sponsors her to give up the Bar job, he still cannot be sure of what she's doing. And neither is she sure about what he's doing either. Without that element of trust, the relationship is doomed to failure anyway, but by trusting a BG, one is wide open to be taken for a complete Charlie and made to look an utter fool. This is why the odds against a successful relationship with a BG are stacked against you.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:49 am on May 17, 2005
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thailife
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agree 100%......
I also look at it form the BG's side... she worked in a bar for a while 1 year? 5 years? who knows... anyways, how many girls has she seen during that time get dumped by her farang and end up back in the bar? So she sees the cycle, it 'won't last long, get what you can'......
But I have a question.....
Maybe better suited for a new thred, but here it goes....
Many BG tattoo the name of a guy on themselves. My wife tattood my name in 2 places on her body. But since most of these relationships don't work out and the girls end up back in the bar, let's name the guys names we have seen tattood on girls....
I will start.... Bob and Pete......
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:04 pm on May 17, 2005
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