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poskat
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Why is it exactly that you want to go to Pattaya? If it's for the beach you'd be better of to go to Phuket. Or do what CG does, go to Koh Samed for a few days and get your girl to use one of her days off and split the BF with you for the other day. So it would only be 750B out of pocket for you as far as BF is concerned and a few nice days at the beach to relax and boff.
Her response to this can give you some insight to how see thinks of you as well. If she balks at this, go directly to Pattya to a girl friendly place and spend the next week finding 14 or so "Miss Right Nows". By that time she'll just be a fading image in your rear view mirror.
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Posted on: 12:09 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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billwilson
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Recoil111 has not answered in a while
Methinks he does not want to hear the truth...
As a Reformed TG Fiance, I can sympathize with Recoil
He REALLY wants to believe
I met "her" in a bar dec 03
went back jan 04, filed for the fiance visa
back feb 04, rented apt, got ring etc
5 more trips by summer
I IGNORED the shit I got from her, because I REALLY wanted to believe
Still "love" her at some level
have made 4 trips in last 3 months, and only saw her once for 1 day
(however she knew my complete whereabouts at all times due to the BG coconut telegraph)
Will be in country 29 jan for 2 weeks
i have THREE lined up to hang with in Samui
going to Samui to r & r, not monger
but as soon as one gives me shit, she is on the plane and the next one arrives, and they all know it
i know, I know, why take sand to the beach, the answer is I like and get along w/ these girls and they sexually satisfy me
the reason for this post is our friend, Recoil does not have a few in the wings to have a reality check
we just have to be here and not be too smug when the enevitable happens
my 2 pesos worth
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:26 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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yodsaker
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The "not asking for any money" ploy is one of the more subtle hooks for a newbie.
It really sets up the "she is different" scenario in the punter's head.
When you hear it, know that you are dealing with an experienced pro.
Trust me on this one.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:29 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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koolbreez
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Quote: from Recoil111 on 5:18 am on Jan. 18, 2005
Hello Brothers!
My "TGF" asked me for the first time for money (10000 Baht).
What should I do? Pay her the money or fly to BKK and find some other girls? Is there a possibility to find a girl who likes to come with me to pattaya (because I already booked a hotel?) I must pay 1500 Baht barfine for my TGF per day!
Dump her, then you can play the game from scratch, but at some cheaper prices.
Cancel your hotel in pattaya, and book a GF hotel.
Or, if you feel that you underpaid her for services in the past, then by all means pay up, but still dump her. She's to expensive for long long term. You can travel with 3+ for that price, and get the same treatment, but tripled.
She has you nailed, you're just a money machine to her, and it will never be any different.
I might be wrong, but I was under the impression that sponsorship in a TG mind is a steady set sum coming in every month, not a ploy to get an extra bt10k out of you. That's how it was explained to me, when I asked my bodyguards what a sponsor was. They had introduced me to their cousin's sponsor at a party.
She doesn't have any respect for you, trying to scam you, dump her.....IMHO
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Posted on: 3:49 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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Recoil111
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Thanks for the answers!
Alright, I will send her an mail and tell her that I dont want to be her sponsor. But now I am very distrustful about her.
Yes I want to believe her but I am not so stupid to do so.
I read the novel "Private Dancer" last night and I recognize some situations. She never wants that I see her room. She told me on the fourth day we met that she love me!
I am very curios about her reply to my mail. I hope a little bit that she said: "You dont want to pay? OK, I dont want to see you again". Because then I would be sure and could cancel my trip and fly with some friends later this year to bkk and have a lot of fun. But I think she will answer: "OK, its up to you if you send me money. I still love you and want to be with you!" Then it would be hard for me to decide what I could do!!!
By the way: I cant cancel my hotel in pattaya because I booked it over my travel agent and this means I have to pay 80% of the full amount if I cancel it. It is also nearly impossible to get a hotel in pattaya in february this year. The most hotels are booked out!
Again: many thanks for your replys.
PS: Everyone warned me to go with her to her family. Why? Any suggestions?
To LusisHusband: Wenn ich wirklich fliege, bin ich ab dem 01.02. in bkk. Wenn du da noch da bist können wir uns gern auf ein Bier treffen!!! Danke für die Hilfe!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:06 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from Recoil111 on 4:00 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
But now I am very distrustful about her.
Don't jump to conclusions here, look at the facts. You are the only one that knows the girl and the complete situation.
For the most part, I love these girls. They are nice and sweet and good-hearted. At least a lot of them are.
I am of the opinion that she is not to be dumped or dismissed simply because she "asked" you if you could help her by giving her 10k baht. What matters to you should be how much fun you have on your holiday. If you think the GFE she provides to you will make you happy and is worth the money you pay her by the day (and barfine money), then by all means go with her. You can still go with her without giving her the 10K baht she asked for.
Then again, if you really are offended by the request for money, then dump her. You won't have a great time with her because you will always be thinking about the money she asked for.
I have taken a couple of Soi 33 girls out of Bangkok for a period, I have even paid a barfine or two there (after I had seen them before or after hours or on their holiday). Could I have spent two days on Koh Samed with a 200-baht-barfine-1000-baht-LT-Pattaya-beer-bar-girl? Yes, of course. But I did not want to, I wanted to spend it with Soi33CanDo.
But no matter what, maintain control. I suggest you do not let feelings of guilt or pity or duty dictate what you do and who you do it with. If you do, you will get chewed up and spit out, but most importantly, you will not be enjoying your holiday.
And poskat is right, if you are going to Pattaya for the beach, you are going for the wrong reason. The beach there sucks. Jomtien is better but it is still crap compared to those beaches on Samed, Samui, Chang and Phuket - and my favorite, Koh Phi Phi - RIP 
Don't cancel your holiday, go and have a good time.
Quote: from Recoil111 on 4:00 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
PS: Everyone warned me to go with her to her family. Why? Any suggestions?
If you get very, very serious about a Thai girl, that is the time to meet her family, in my opinion.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:30 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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Recoil111
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Hello ColoradoGuy!
Thanks for your suggestions!
Do you ever had a girl from the lookie lookie bar on soi 33?
I love these girls and I always felt like home if I stayed there!
I eat grasshoppers there for the first time and every girl stands beside me and wanted to see how I eat these things!
Very funny!
Do you think it is ok when I gave her the 10000 baht when I arrive? (i will decide about my trip on the weekend).
Should I refuse to go to her family? Should I tell her that I only want to go with her to pattaya and not spend time with her on the whole trip?
Thanks!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:58 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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poskat
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Quote: from Recoil111 on 5:00 am on Jan. 19, 2005
I am very curios about her reply to my mail. I hope a little bit that she said: "You dont want to pay? OK, I dont want to see you again". Because then I would be sure and could cancel my trip and fly with some friends later this year to bkk and have a lot of fun. But I think she will answer: "OK, its up to you if you send me money. I still love you and want to be with you!" Then it would be hard for me to decide what I could do!!!
The issue isn't really her asking for money, it's how she responds to you saying you won't give it to her. Having your eyes open in the developing situation is now in your favor.
Don't break off with her, you seem to have a good time with her. But try not get to hung up or serious with her, just focus on having a good time with her (or others) when you are in LOS. Don't be distrustfulthat will only garuantee (sic) problems, rather now be aware.
And don't be surprised if she hits you up again for a payday, just keep saying you can't. If you were to get serious and marry her, the requests will keep on cumming, so get used to saying no now.
Don't give her the 10K unless it is to settle up at the end of your trip. Otherwise you'll keep getting a "I need XXK Baht right before you show up.
Tell her you can't fit in the family trip this time (unless you want to meet her Thai husband/boyfriend and pay for him to party!!), too much planned with "friends".
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Posted on: 5:59 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from Recoil111
Do you ever had a girl from the lookie lookie bar on soi 33?
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I love these girls and I always felt like home if I stayed there!
Yes, I am quite familiar with that bar.   If your girl works there, I may know of her. Hit me with a PM.
Quote: from Recoil111
Do you think it is ok when I gave her the 10000 baht when I arrive?
I never recommended giving her 10,00 baht. I do not recommend this. Reread my replies for clarification.
Quote: from Recoil111
Should I refuse to go to her family? Should I tell her that I only want to go with her to pattaya and not spend time with her on the whole trip?
Refuse? That is a word that we use when someone demands or insists something of you. "Declining her invitation" would probably be the better way I would phrase it. Earlier, you suggested that you might not even see her. That should tell me how serious you are about considering making her a permanent part of your life. Based on that, why would you want to meet her family? No point.
Don't let her tell you what to do on your holiday. If you want a girl to tell you what to do, you can easily find that in your home country.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:43 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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koolbreez
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Quote: from ColoradoGuy on 6:37 am on Jan. 19, 2005
Don't let her tell you what to do on your holiday. If you want a girl to ltell you what to do, yu can easily find that in yur home country.
Might I add "or spend your money"
CG is spot on on all the advise he has posted
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:35 pm on Jan. 18, 2005
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