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stephane
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Sorry to deceive you but I will know. As she will live with me.............anyway if she wants to fool around I will not be able to do something about that except dump her.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:54 pm on June 16, 2006
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Yurune
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So if she will be living with you.... it is not sponsorship..... Oiii sia weela
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 7:39 pm on June 16, 2006
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stephane
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I will have to sponsor her for 2 months........time needed to have her visa. After that I will certainly have to take care of her financial needs for 1 year before she gets a work......... Maybe marriage in 2-3 years if all goes well as she said it herself.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:13 pm on June 16, 2006
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ThaiPrivateEye II
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Quote: from BigDUSA on 1:17 pm on June 17, 2006 "Slavery was outlawed in LOS around 1905. There is no need to buy her out of the bar,massage joint she works at. If she tells you that it's expected then your being "played".
With all due respect BigDUSA, yes they can always leave and not Buy Bar! But then they may not be able to go back… It also depends if they are a 5 or a 10 and can attract customers and not Fly's to the bar... Some may ask why she would even be thinking about going back to work bar? Especially when she has been whisked away from this terrible lifestyle? Easy it’s called insurance… Fact: BG’s know from experience that these things (boyfriends) rarely last and they don’t want to burn their bridges. Especially if it’s a good bar and she can earn some coin there… Fact: If BG does not Buy Bar (BB) and just walks, she may not be able to return to that particular bar. Nor to any other bars that the owners or Mamasan’s are associated with. Fact: BG has problems with the bar owners, lateness or drunk or breaking some other rules so she may even be fired. Fact: They (Owners/Mamasan’s) may even go so far as to black list the BG from the whole area to keep face and to also keep the other BGs in line... Fact: BG sees another opportunity to make some money. She never intends to go back anyway so it’s just some more cash for her to stash… We (TPE) have arranged to "Buy Bar" for a few girls occasionally on behalf of some clients... Never with a Massage Parlor though… If you do this (BB) then its better if you first find out if your BG has ever had any problems in the bar or Mamasan there! Some subtle investigation or questioning on your part is required here and a little bit of thought. What I have witnessed in the past is that a BG who has problems with the Mamasan may try to persuade her (current) BF to “Buy Bar” to the tune of anything between 10-20k… She may tell BF she is unhappy and the Boss hates her, etc, forces her to go with men when she does not want to, etc and she wants to leave so she can work in another bar or a salon or, or, or… Yeah Right! But they pocketed the money instead or even go 50-50 with Mamasan… Don’t try and negotiate with the Mamasan yourself or you will get f***ed by her as well. Also don’t just blindly accept the word of the BG you want to rescues either. She will see you as too trusting and play every little trick in the book to suck you dry… Pun intended. TPE II ps. Good luck stephane. Hope it works for you...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:55 pm on June 16, 2006
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Cunnilingual
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Interesting points. Slavery abolished so long ago. Ehmmmmmmm. A rose by any other name ? And yes, Bar owners are not happy to see ladies go suddenly. So sometimes an amount is asked for. It keeps the options open for later for the lady and also keeps the bar owners 'association ' sweet, for possible alternative employment if they need it down the road a bit. Knew a lady who legitimately left a very popular bar, with good feelings all around and her 'boy-friend' buying her out to eat her out on a more permanent basis. But it was a popular bar. So when she wanted to get back into it 18 months later she had to pay an entry fee of 15,000 baht, in addition to what the 'boyfriend' had paid to get her out. So, I understand that some of these more popular places are somewhat akin to a semi-closed-shop set-up. You have to buy in and you have to buy out. Somebody must be a happy, smiling sod.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:00 pm on June 16, 2006
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Minder
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Okay...that settles it...no way am I taking Dr Loves night tour...forget about waking up in a bath tub full of ice minus your kidneys...this is worse...they steal your memories...Stephane took the tour and has forgotten every sponsorship horror story he ever heard, saw or took part in !!! Seriously...give her 20k for the next couple of months till she is out of BKK....hope you realise this is just a beginning. For example, you going to keep paying her 20k a month once she is living with you? Money for the family etc still at that rate...20k a month? And she will get a job doing what? Too many guys don't think enough about what happens once you get this girl "home". I didn't think I was one of them but I was. Take care. Enjoy.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:42 pm on June 19, 2006
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IBFarang
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Was out on the town the other night with a particular TG and her friend (TGF) came along. They both use to work at the same bar, and I had not seen TGF dancing at the bar in some time. Turns out TGF has been sponsored by some bloke from Europe, and agreed not to dance/work in the bar anymore. We were at Gulliver’s on soi 5, and towards the end of the night all TGF could do was complain that she had not been picked up yet. It had been three whole days since she had last been laid and she could barely stand it any more. Too sad for me that my TG was not into any three-way action. Too sad for the bloke from Europe as while TGF had agreed not to work in her old bar, was still plying her trade at Gulliver’s.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:23 pm on June 19, 2006
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from IBFarang on 9:25 am on June 20, 2006 sad for the bloke from Europe as while TGF had agreed not to work in her old bar, was still plying her trade at Gulliver’s.
She said she wouldn't work in her old bar, maybe she didn't say anything about freelancing. I occasionally do some work on the side, apart from my regular job. She must think what she is doing is in her best interests. Maybe she is right.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:48 pm on June 19, 2006
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seajohn
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I think the results are all in now... Decent sponsorship? Ain't none.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:34 pm on June 19, 2006
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IBFarang
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Quote: from seajohn on 12:35 pm on June 20, 2006 Decent sponsorship? Ain't none.
SJ: Correction there is no decent sponsorship for the sponsorer, but… Every sponsorship is decent for the sponsoree. In the words of some imortale rapper or another – don’t hate the player, hate the game.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:52 pm on June 19, 2006
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