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Lofty
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I think the other thing about sponsership is where the girl is living.. living in Bangkok is a lot more expensive than up country so therefore you are going to have to pay more if you dont want her to carry on working (of course if you are out of the country or away for long periods there is still no guarantee she is not working) I tried reducing the temptation (at her suggestion) by sending her back to the village I was paying her 8,000 baht to a bank account and another 4,000 into a savings scheme which she could not draw on for 5 years.. trying to protect her future. I did not think about how the relationship would develop or if it would last but I was happy paying it. when I arrived back in LOS she did not expect me to pay anymore other than for food etc and of course some new clothes, shoes etc Ha Ha! if you can afford it why not. I enjoyed it while it lasted (yes it is over now) and think we both got something out of it. she had great cudos in the village.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:03 pm on Nov. 11, 2006
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zipster500
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Wow, I should have read this before I ever even thought about sponsoring. What a great thread and so much good advice.
In my very brief stint at being a sponsor it changed everything about the relationship. I never asked nor cared about who she was with before, then with sponsorship impossible promises were made and broken with lightning speed!!!
Back to the old ways, I want to be the guy in the room when the sponsor calls my girl, I don't want to be the guy making the call...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:26 pm on Nov. 27, 2006
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NicFrenchy
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I fail to understand the need for sponsoring?
why sponsor a girl when you live abroad and can only come here a month per year?
there are so many girls ready to give you their number for you to call them everytime you set foot in Thailand.
No pussy is worth this kind of trouble.
If you live in Thailand, then the story is different.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:08 pm on Nov. 27, 2006
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DewAsmara
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Hmm Sponsorship,
Depends, some man need same woman or pussy to make sure he is in love scene (some maybe but some only got cheated). Most woman ask sponsorship due to reduce concentrate working with many man, only need to cheat one man :p Well sort not all of course, I have seen some woman really fall in love during sponsorship scene but not much and quite rare. For me? I just take woman to dinner or watch movies and give just cheap gift rather to sponsor them, let older guys do sponsor on them not me :p
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:20 pm on Nov. 28, 2006
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Baskoy
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Totally agree with Nic Frenchy. Why would anyone want to put themselves through the trauma of sponsoring a girl who you are 90% sure will be working again as soon as you have gone home, or at least shagging her Thai boyfriend. Even if she is faithful to you,would you totally believe her ?
If you are living here,then yes the relationship may have a chance.But if you are visiting once or twice a year... just forget it
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:14 am on Nov. 29, 2006
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seajohn
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The state between the genders in the West, the sexual desperation it causes, must be so terrific that even this sponsoring seems not only feasible but desireable to desperate men.
The fantasy that this random woman gave him on his 2 week trip to Thailand, and the fact that she was with him the entire time and loved him so exotically and mothered him and made love to him such as no other woman had before--this has blown his lonely mind.
Loneliness is not an individual vice. Perhaps certain conditions in a society may be blamed during this period of transition. On its period again. Pushed around by deprived instincts, it is difficult for men to be rational until the first couple mistakes.
Sponsor? Buy a teddy bear, it's cheaper. Squeeze the holy stuffing out of it until the next trip into the wonder garden.
If you live here, OK, you'll probably still make mistakes but you'll be learning about the culture and deal with it and be the 24hr customer, so she doesn't have opportunity to stray... as long as you live with her... Otherwise, it's a crap shoot.
The majority of females from Thailand have a different basic outlook on life from the majority of males from the West. But there are intersections in which both parties can connect most favorably, in short or long term, once you begin to learn the ropes.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:50 am on Nov. 29, 2006
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Beretta
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Take note guys, this has to be one of the best wake up posts Ive seen for a long time on this forum, great post Seajohn.
Beretta................S05.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:16 am on Nov. 29, 2006
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ringthebells
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nothing new, but well put seajohn.
rtb
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:34 am on Nov. 29, 2006
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don5252
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some people have more money then brains (no one here), if they want to send money from abroad i'm all for the girl to relieve someone like that of their cash, might help lower my cost
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:57 pm on Nov. 29, 2006
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LiamOZ
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My (nearly 3 yr, 4 tours a year) regular had some bad luck last year, so in a moment of total stupidity, against my better judgement I arranged through an expat friend to give her a small allowance.
I always knew if sponsored that she would continue to work, because I know her plans & needs, but my naieve expat mate extracted a 'sort of' promise of no more customers, so I went with it.
Well didn't that cause some hassles..my new & unrealistic expectations, and her suddenly having to be dishonest with me.
Well, it is kind of sorted out now, after a silly, unecessary argument:
*I have reduced the sum, to an amount that helps her along. Averaged out over a year it is not much more than I gave in concentrated form over four tours a year. *She is mine when I am in town, and I give her fair warning of my arrival. Recently she refused a high paying last minute 3 week job to stay with me, and showed me the customers angry and final sms to her.
*She tells me she 'can choose' customer now, and naturally avoids 'low life', and pressure to do what she don't want to do.
*she insists I am only 'boyfriend', "only you have my heart"....I guess this is my only vulnerability, because I care about this one a lot.
So, Is this sponsorship?
All I can say guys is don't impose unrealistic rules on someone unless you are paying big money & can keep tabs. This way you may get that very rare thing...a 'relatively' open & honest realtionship with your TG.
Cheers,
Liam
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:56 pm on Nov. 29, 2006
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