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madfrog
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Got to say I do agree with both Vox and DG this time.
If you take some TG with you for some hollidays, a few advices:
- be aware that most wont have the proper clothe for a week of travel, some wont even have enought clothe at all, so be ready to go on a little shopping trip with them before to leave.
- YOU know the destination, they dont...help them make their bags like a "good dad". If you go to a fresh place buy them some VERY warm clothe (bring them from your country, they simply love those polar clothing, the very soft ones are a treat for sleeping if the place is cold and your girl will really appreciate the attention...)
- Take a lot of picture of them while there, then have them printed when you come back and give it to them in a nice album. NO picture of your ugly farang face in the album please, this one will be to show friends and familly.
- Even if the girl "like" you, be aware that what is "fun" to you can be boring/weird/scary to them...dont force them going to places they dont like.
I once got a TG going ballistic right after visiting a cave...
she told me she saw some "spirit" (Thep) following me with an angry face all along the visit....this is how I lost this one..and she was a nice girl not really into bullshit and hallucinations.
- Give them a little "free time" each day, like giving them some money and tell them they can go shopping alone...
Be ready for them to come back late with some "mickey mouse" clothing...
- Make clear you dont want their phone on all the time BUT that they can take some time each day to do their calls whitout you around.
Madfrog
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:48 am on Feb. 19, 2011
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cheapcharlie
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Quote: from vox on 5:06 pm on Feb. 19, 2011
BULL f***ing SHIT. It is NOT "same same" (is English not your first language? if so you're excused. if not, why are you talking like a moron who can't speak English?) as a f***ing banker on holiday.
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I take it you don't have english as your first languange as even after reading your post a few times I dont get why your ranting on at me about this. My post is based on actual experience the holiday, shopping,the trip to the gold shop.
As well as the speed some short time 2x I had clung to me im suddenly the boy friend to her family and suggest going to the beach told her by other ladys.These were her words made to sound like this was part of the deal not just casual sex but a holiday togeather which she was very keen about.
Bankers get bonuses on top of salary so if you are paying a lady salary and bf this should continue on said holiday xxxx amount which should be negotiated beforehand and have some simularity to what you are paying the lady normally.
So a nice holiday mixed with working and the amount this is against fun really depends what the deal is with said falang but its perks of the job so same same as the bankers bonus. Its really up to them to choose for an overweight gross falang or one they actually like to spend time with though. If you base your assumptions on bg telling you how she hated her working holiday with a certain falang well up to her follow the baht money no 1.
Their is always another angle to everything though in this case the phone, the money amount and qty of bar fine, shopping,holidays all status and on the one hand they will gloat while complaining on the other.
The clue might be in who does the asking i.e if the lady asks it may be for merit in the bar to become popular or because she is tired and would like a week away from the bar or AGoGo.A lot of the time its just copying what other girls are doing.
None of this has anything to do with me personally as I never did long time and certainly never took any ladys on holiday. I did once and the lady in question was not one I was paying for services rendered period. A holiday is one way to get to know each other better in a different envoirement. I would not recommend it as I have now been married to this lady for 12 yrs.
As for the thai man we can learn a lot from them as they would never take a working lady from a beer / gogo bar on holiday.Just pay for st and send them on their way. Personally im not paying into the isaan farmers daughter fund more than necessary I finished my bangkok fever a long time ago.
If you are looking for a long term thing with such a lady a holiday is one way to
get to know each other better but then again why want a long term thing with a women you pay for sex.
Therefore why pay for the holiday thing its like taking sand to the beach. The one reason coming to mind is that the falang likes the lady which is a dangerous route to go its one more notch up. In the west prostitution is clear you pay the lady to go, in thailand the girlfriend experience takes on a new meaning. You take them shopping, holidays, gold its the girlfriend illusion some can handle while others cannot.
Its also not so simple of course for most just work, I saw this in the bus to pattaya the guys who rented their ladys for a holiday the bored expression while falang is high and exstatic. But as DG correctly mentions the flip side bragging rights, maybe her time is running age, she learn from her sisters, some may even like the guy !!
One reason these girls go with falang on holiday is of course outside of the money the other m word 'marriage ' or at the very least a trip to the gold shop at the end of the trip.
How otherwise so many lady leave bar to marry go europe, america. They see their sisters the gold, the houses in Isaan and europe some may want to try.Many return after a very short time though with tales of falang cheap charlie etc. Their are the exception that dont and enjoy the gold,the houses and the status that goes with it.
Im sure experienced bros like Madfrog can cut through the bullshit but not the naieve first timer they are on a collision course to a train wreck.
His advice is spot on as always and totally true about the clothes and pee and lack of interest doing anything except eating (thai food of course).
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:48 am on Feb. 19, 2011
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dirty guru
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Typically, to qualify the girl impressed-
Both etremely sexually, and playfulness, and personality-
She might like 3 holes amd swallow and have the body of a Zumba teacher in one of those dance fitness advertisments-
I take her for selfish reason not love-
But the script will go like this (as madfrog alluded to)
"i dont have for swim"....
"That looks good too" (pointing at tropical dress and hat)
Then there is the food and phone cards and coolers and gift for Mamma- /friend
They do ok-
But I find a Jet ski or sailboat hire at Lami and some sunset cocktail and dinner - and they throw everything they have at you in the bedroom-
Its their oppurtunity-
Regardless a few quiet nights and a good book and her for a week was memorable-
Besides it give them hope-
The 1000 a day might not seem much, but they easily spend that again and you pick up the Tab-
Heres an example
Return airfare 6000 baht
Shopping 5000
Drinks /phonecards 4000
Fee for girl 7000 and 3000 bar fine (she keeps)
Your looking at maybe something like 5000 in all her orders of food too
1000 in massages (as in feet and /or salon)
Jet ski hire 4000 (for her)
All up maybe 35,000
Its about $1200 AUD and works out at about $7 an hour (168 hours in a week) Or $171 a day
What hooker in your country will blow you in the shower - f*** you at dawn - take it in the arse at 5pm and screw you again at 10pm all for that fee?
Well not only will they do that but do so happily-
The only part I agree with Vox is paying them extra-
Not though in cash but make sure the money you give them is saved- pay the holiday in Total-
And remeber a GFE is not real
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:30 am on Feb. 20, 2011
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mybutterfly
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Do Thai citizens need a visa in advance to visit 1 Phillipines, 2 Cambodia, 3 Singapore 4 Hong Kong ?
Which of 3 or 4 would a TG prefer ? Her shopping reflex would of course have to be controlled.
How long does it take an adult Thai woman to get a passport and how much does it cost ?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:45 am on Feb. 24, 2011
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mybutterfly
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Has anyone considered or tried taking a "straight" Thai girl on holiday ? A girl who would not normally go to a farang's hotel or apartment might go on holiday with him to a place in Thailand where she would be sure of not being recognised or to a foreign country. That might be expensive but maybe a "straight" girl would go only for the foreign holiday and would not ask for a daily payment.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:58 am on Feb. 24, 2011
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madfrog
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Problem is that a "straight" girl likely has a "straight" job and cant get free time when she want...
Madfrog
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:45 am on Feb. 24, 2011
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NicFrenchy
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Quote: from madfrog on 12:45 am on Feb. 25, 2011
Problem is that a "straight" girl likely has a "straight" job and cant get free time when she want...
Totally agree.... and the "straight" girl will also most likely not go on holidays with a Farang she does not know... unless he pays for Everything (especially the 2 lady friends she might bring to feel safer or provide her with the back door escape)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:21 pm on Feb. 24, 2011
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koolbreez
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I have taken a regular Thai girl on holiday also. We had separate beds, and were on vacation for 7 days traveling through Laos. It was different only because of the sleeping arrangements, and that she payed half of everything.
I've known her for quite a few years, and it took almost a full year for her to arrange the time off from her business. She does own her own business so it was not easy to get the time off. We had planned taking 9 days, but cut it short.
The one big thing about traveling with her was that we could not travel in Thailand, it had to be out of the country.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:33 pm on Feb. 24, 2011
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poskat
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Yes, the main difficulty is them having the time off to go away...
i have had a few "regular" girls who were reluctant to come to my place suggest an out of town holiday. 2 were fun and "full service" during the trip, which led to visits to my place subsequently.
One was shocked that I thought we were going to having sex on the trip (i found this part out while we were on it...).... so YMMV
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:10 pm on Feb. 24, 2011
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Bimlee
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In my last 3 trips, I have taken TG's to different places in Thailand, and next time again, I do have a plan to spend most of my time out side Bangkok.
I know what is their daily rates, and I pay them. Plus extra tips, so they are not unhappy, rather I don't like to deprive them off what they could earn else where. In first trip, there were two girls, and then two trips, it was only one. It makes me feel good when I am away from the city, and in a lonely beach like place Hua Hin or Kanchanaburi. Next time, I may plan some other places.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:54 pm on April 30, 2011
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