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Hi Balls,
Thanks for the words of wisdom appreciate it, the strength needed to wait for a time period you talked about would be immense and Utmost respect if you have to test anything near to it! ÝLuckily I only have to wait a few more weeks on this occasion.
However, it must be of immense difficulty for many people who have fallen in love with the culture (let alone a women), to "make it" in Thailand with the obvious language and other difficulties and was interested in the experiences of those here who actually work in Bangkok etc, after leaving the bullshit Rat race and morally bangkrupt western systems. Ý(The irony when we talk about BG's is not lost on me but I don't mean in that context)!!!!!!!LOL.
Apologies if this is the wrong area of the board.
Thanks again
S.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:04 pm on April 30, 2003
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LadyAnne
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You guys 
I'm asking as I'm TG..is there real love when you have GF or you are in love with someone?Any problems in language and other things?I need to know ka...anyone want to tell me frankly..
Thanks ka
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:48 am on May 10, 2003
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Arcadius
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A tricky question, Lady A. ÝAfter all, what is "real" love?
I suspect most of us know it when it hits us.
And, yes, of course there are language problems. Culture-gap problems are even more important. Farang and Thais have very different ways of thinking about many things.
But, well... behind all that there are just men and women. And behind men and women there are just human beings. I think emotional contact is easier than intellectual contact.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:11 am on May 10, 2003
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LadyAnne
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Bros....
I don't know either what is real love? But when live without love is like my life is very empty..so lonely huuuu..Good luck that I know a bit English and can come here lol...
Fairy tale? I want to have it happened to me once lol
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 11:37 am on May 10, 2003
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Addy 007
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I think it's very tricky to define exactly what love it, as it is a number of things from powerful feelings of true happiness, contentment, fulfullmint, joy, euphoria...to name but a few.
I have found love with a t/g, who is currently living in Surin. We are both keeping in touch on a regular basis, and although she wants to come to England, i have asked her to give this very careful consideration. Ý
I love her, but i want the best for her & for her to be happy, and if that means she stays in Thailand, then so be it. As long as she is not working the bar, then that's enough for me.
Bro's - i will explain all in FR's (eventually!)...apologies for the delay!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:51 am on May 10, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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LadyAnne,
Yes I do love my TGF, but we have come to our current relationship at different speeds. I felt an immediate attraction to her when I first met her. She was the one who introduced herself to me as she had a similar feeling. But she did not really think it was "real" for several months, as she had heard plenty of false promises from farangs before.
Last night I called her to say hi. She laughed and said "funny you call me teelakja, I going to call you too." So after a year and a half, we share more than time together. There is also no real desire on her part to live in the U.S.A. (she would like to visit, of course) and I have no problem with retiring in Thailand. As she said to me once "I love Thailand" and she was quite serious about that.
I would say I feel for her the same thing I have felt for other ladies with whom I've had serious relationships, both farang and non-farang. Arcadius hit the nail on the head: it is far easier to feel emotional connections first. I have found it is possible to get beyond the initial emotions because both of us seem to want this.
- Balls
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:47 pm on May 10, 2003
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LadyAnne
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Bros
Thanks to share your experiences ka..
I was in love with my ex BF..he's farang but because of the long distance..Now we keep in touch as friends only..So sad story....chai mai?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:52 pm on May 10, 2003
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PopSecret
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LadyAnne / all,
I've always been somewhat suspicious of farangs who claim they have real relationships with their TG's abroad that can last the test of time. Apparently some do, and I even have a friend who married a Thai wife. But I can't help but wonder what kind of relationship it could really be considering how different they are.
When I was in Thailand I met girls that I certainly lusted after and even girls who I might have wanted a real reationship with, but the language and culture barrier was always a little too much. We could connect on a basic emotional level, but not really bond together. Toward the end of my stay I made a point of looking for girls who could speak more English, and I had even more fun, but it still was not the same as having a GF who truly understands you. I think being able to understand each other and be close to each other is key to making it work.
Certainly this is possible for the expats out there, but not so much for those still living at home. My friend had to spend the better part of two years in and around Thailand in order to make the relationship work. Few of us can really spare that kind of time, regardless of our affections.
It may not be pretty, but I think it's the truth.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:41 am on May 11, 2003
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LadyAnne
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Ahhhhhh..I see ka
But many farang who live in Thailand can have happy family..I can see that...
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:19 pm on May 11, 2003
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BigDUSA
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Falling in love, being in love and last but not least staying in love. Is this the cruelest illusion of all?
Beat's the hell out of me.
I've been comming to Thailand since 99. I'm on my 16th trip and as many of the members know I'm hangen with the homies in Pattaya. I've been seeing one BG that I meet on my first trip to Pattaya. Her name is Pukky and she works at the Flamingo Bar, soi 2, second pool table down fro 2nd road. Stop in and see her, she can use the business. She speaks excellent english and has the type of personality one girl in a hundred has. She has a sparkle and joy for life that's amazing. She is a very popular BG. Had a great time with her on my first trip and told her when I came back, I'd see here again. She smiled and said sure, I'd like to see you again. I try to come to LOS three to five times a year. Couple of months later, I'm back in Pattaya and walk in to her bar. Denny, your back and with a big smile she gives me a Ýhug. I find out that I'm the first guy who ever came back to see her. I told her, I'm a butterfly but she's the first women I see and the last women I see when I leave. Up untill my last trip she was ok with this. With Pokky we get along so well and have so much to talk about. I ask her to stay with me during the day. We enjoy each other's company and I can see that she is falling in love with me. When a women's in love with you, they act differently in small ways and Pukky has started doing this.
For about a year, I've started to experience the real deal: GFE with all the + & - that go along with it. It started slowly with Pokky, she had made herself a promise, never fall in love with a falang/customer and I respected her for it. I treated her like I treat all women with respect. I like women and they can sense that I do. For some reason I have the gift of making people laugh and Pokky has such a good command of english she can understand my word play and enjoy my humor. Guys, your half way home if you can make a women laugh and if you can make her have the BIG O every once in awile, she will luv you looong time.
Last month there a change with Pooky. She realizes she's in love with me (the real deal). This trip I'm in Pattaya for a long time and I don't want to stay with her the whole trip. If I do, I know I won't want to leave. She stays with me for the first week or so. It's like being in Thai girl friend heaven. I want to start my butterfly phase, Pokky becomes possessive and start's to cry. What's wrong, you never had a problem with me seeing other women until now. Dammit, I'm in love with you and it hurts. We talk and the next day she goes back to work. She gets a long term bf and I don't see her again. I hope to hook up with her next October and see where this takes us.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:05 am on May 13, 2003
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