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Abrak
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Hayashi,
First, I am pretty sure it will not be worth it to go to a lawyer, set up a company and buy a Bt600k house. The legal fees alone will probably come to Bt300k+ and then you must have the company audited every year - more expense.
As the Bros said, dont buy her house if you cant afford to lose it if things go wrong (the chances are they will). If you are prepared to give her a present of a Bt600k house - for her and possibly your future baby then go ahead by all means...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:20 am on Aug. 31, 2004
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hayashi
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Cg why? the chance of of being with the person I love like you say if she loves me and she wants to move away from Bkk to Mae lan to live a simple life I guess I would find out then if she loves me or my money.The other thing is when I was in Mae lan many soldiers lots of police not to keen on a white person being there was told to go back to bkk by armed police not safe for me there.But can not give in to terroist other wise they win.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:34 am on Aug. 31, 2004
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from hayashi on 2:34 am on Aug. 31, 2004
...like you say if she loves me and she wants to move away from Bkk to Mae lan to live a simple life I guess I would find out then if she loves me or my money.
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when I was in Mae lan many soldiers lots of police not to keen on a white person being there was told to go back to bkk by armed police not safe for me there.
If you want to live in Mae Lan, then you should build a house for yourself there.
She wants a simple life in Mae Lan with an expensive house built by you, but you are not welcome there?
I guess I just don't understand. Anyway, good luck.
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Posted on: 9:00 am on Aug. 31, 2004
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ftumch
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Abrak
sh_t and I thought I was screwed (well I was!). As you say can't live with 'em can't live without 'em.
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Posted on: 9:17 am on Aug. 31, 2004
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hayashi
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The Thai people welcome me there lend me motorbikes and take no money at the end of the day,just the the people trying to blow people up and shoot them do not like me being there.Thanks for the advice everyone its time to decide.
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Posted on: 11:28 am on Aug. 31, 2004
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hzink
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Quote: from hayashi on 11:28 pm on Aug. 31, 2004
just the the people trying to blow people up and shoot them do not like me being there.Thanks for the advice everyone its time to decide.
You're right. Let's recap:
- the nice people like you.
- the not-so nice don't like you.
- the not-so nice people want to kill you.
- the not-so nice people have a record of doing so.
- you are thinking of buying a house there, and living there.
Either the girl is very naive, or very clever. Have you ever been in any other part of the country (i.e. a location with less not-so nice people) ? How about suggesting in building a house in a location where your survival is a better likelyhood? See how she reacts to that.
Harry
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Posted on: 11:51 am on Aug. 31, 2004
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hayashi
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If the Thai people end up moving away from this area the terroist have won.Its her home village her son mum granny and aunt live there she wants to live there I would be happy to live there what ever the cost and I do not mean lots of money!.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:17 pm on Aug. 31, 2004
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hzink
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Quote: from hayashi on 12:17 am on Sep. 1, 2004
If the Thai people end up moving away from this area the terroist have won.Its her home village her son mum granny and aunt live there she wants to live there I would be happy to live there what ever the cost and I do not mean lots of money!.
That's very sacrifical of you. You're a bigger man than I, as preserving my life is several notches above 'making her happy'.
Good luck to you.
Harry
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Posted on: 1:21 pm on Aug. 31, 2004
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Aprod
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Quote: from hayashi on 8:12 pm on Aug. 30, 2004
Advice needed I know most of you do not approve I have been seeing my tgf for 7 months she is a bar girl no suprise there we have just spent a month together she lives in Bkk her home is near Yala...........I love her everyone I meet in Bkk tells me she loves me would you take a chance give her the money to buy land build a home cost 600000 baht,a lot of you have had more experience with tgs send me your thoughts.
Hayashi, If I'm correct I think I met the girl you're speaking of when we were both in BKK in Feb....But my unsolicited advice is to listen to the others in this thread and proceed with great trepidation. You've know her for seven months and already she's trying to get pregnant? My impressions of you are that you're a bright and street-wise guy but be very careful, TG's can be extremely crafty. Is 7 months really long enough to know someone well enough to change your entire life? If she truly cares for you as much as you seem to care about her, give it some time, she'll still be there. Over time her true intentions will eventually show and the tell-tell signs will come out. Why not give it a while longer before taking a quantam leap?
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Posted on: 5:34 pm on Sep. 7, 2004
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jack attack
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another 2 baht worth of pop psychology....
You can't move to LOS... no job
She wants your baby and a house... BT 600,000++
The chosen place is a terrorist haven... you've been warned
You don't want to dip into the savings to move to LOS... in case it doesn't work out.
You love her and want to be with her... Ok
What is the solution?
If you buy her the house and she gets pregnant, you have 2 choices... support from afar or a move for you or her. You most likely will then have to dip into the savings account.
IMO it has bad news written all over it. Why does she have to have these things now? What is gained by such urgency?
Please consider making a long tem plan of this and getting her to sign on. Times of when she can have the house and how you will care for the child need to be discussed in advance. If she can't grasp the wisdom of a plan for your future together, it may clearly indicate she isn't thinking about you as part of the long term deal.
Sorry to be blunt. I appreciate the heart ache. Act with a certain detachment for a bit to give yourself the benefit of seeing if it is real... time is necesary not optional.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:00 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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