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zzzZ
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yeah, today i got hit up with the "can you help me" question... 10,000 baht. guess i knew that was coming. this board has been a great source of info!
i honestly think she isn't getting money from anyone else, seeing anyone else, or freelancing. she doesn't have a kid, has no family (father died), and only supports herself.
i'm getting the feeling that this is part of the thai package... have to admit i never sent money to a girlfriend before...
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:59 am on Aug. 19, 2002
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cmore
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Hey brother Z, looks like it happened just like you thought it would, but it's not like you weren't expecting it and were caught unprepared. I don't know what your financial situation is but only you can decide if your lady is worth your help from this point on. I know it isn't much but I have a lot of faith in you young Jedi and I know you'll do what's right for both of you. I'm curious to know, not that it really makes a difference, whether her question Can you help me was a request for one time help because something came up or a request for a monthly allowance until further notice. Feel free to say no comment and please think long and hard before you give her an answer one way or another. I know you want to help your lady. Just don't forget to save some help for yourself as well. Peace
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 6:24 pm on Aug. 19, 2002
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zzzZ
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Hey Cmore! Yep, more or less what I expected. I don't know if the request is a "one off" or a monthly until further notice. I suspect it is a monthly (come on, of course it is!!).
But 10,000 isn't so much, especially if you care for someone. I did make it clear to her that I had been around the block and knew exactly the way most BG's play this sort of thing. She isn't comfortable asking for money, so certainly hasn't pushed things yet. It took 2 months for her to ask for this, and it's really just covering her basic expenses. Way I see it, as long as she's honest, and doesn't play me like a fool, I don't have problem with it. I certainly get my money's worth anyway :)
It will be interesting to see if the amount stays the same or whether it creeps up after a couple of months! Will keep you posted!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:44 pm on Aug. 19, 2002
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cmore
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Damn brother Z, you take all the fun out of worrying about you when you use logic to figure these things out for yourself. Now 50% of the voices in my head have nothing to do except go back to dealing with me and my problems. THANKS A LOT! PEACE!! 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:57 pm on Aug. 19, 2002
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zzzZ
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Yeah, Cmore, but the brotherly support always helps. Even though I'm not new on the block I'm still in uncharted territory. I never sent a girl money before so it's a weird and new experience. Just gotta be cautious which is why I air it on this board!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:07 pm on Aug. 19, 2002
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MrJoe
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Obviously my story didn't make much of an impression (I thought it was a pretty classic example.) Not surprising -- you guys don't think I am as interesting as I do!
I was waiting for someeone to ask me if I went with her to Koh Samet. ÝWell know I'm just going to pout and not tell you even if you want to know (I can hear you all yawning and switching to another thread.)
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:03 pm on Aug. 20, 2002
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Ballsburstin
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O.K. MrJoe,
Curiosity is killing me! So what really happened on Koh Samet? I'm sure by now everyone has switched to a different thread, so that won't be listening 
Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:36 am on Aug. 21, 2002
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MrJoe
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BallsB,
You're right, we' all alone. Now I have to ask, why do you assume that I went with her? Wouldn't that have been disgustingly immoral of me? After all, I knew (though not well) her latest boy friend. Did I go with her under those conditions?
You bet your ass. (Flames? Bring em on.) It was pretty fun and would have been great except ironically I was trying to get over a TG (who had moved to England when I refused to make a commitment to her).
But there WAS sex on the beach... and in the ocean, and in the bungalow...
Yes I was heartbroken but my dick didn't seem to notice.
Sorry if you were hoping for some exciting details BallsB, I'll try to remember some.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:50 am on Aug. 21, 2002
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MrJoe
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Damn, I can't believe I did that. I was determined not to answer if anyone asked me whether I went with her-then I just confessed!
BallsB, don't tell anyone!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:57 am on Aug. 21, 2002
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Ballsburstin
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MrJ
Don't think anyone was listening, so yer secret's safe with me (besides, I couldn't hear much with this arrow stuck in my ears. Suppose an arrow is better than having all those voices that keep cmore up at nights). But, I bet there are some juciy details yet to be told? ...
Another question, MrJ (feel free not to answer if it's too personal): when you went to the American Embassy, and they shit on you (a fine "thank you" to a soldier at arms), what was the final outcome? Did they give your girl a visa? I doubt much has changed since then (the morality police are as active as ever, Stateside), but I'm curious.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:08 am on Aug. 21, 2002
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