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thaiaficionado
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Best advice for any newbie is to put dirty guru on ignore, and don't waste your money with an escort agency.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:50 pm on Dec. 9, 2011
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expatchuck
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This will come as a complete shock to many but, hold on to your seats...I, too, suggest a Doc Luv tour to start off with.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 7:54 pm on Dec. 9, 2011
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from thaiaficionado on 8:50 am on Dec. 10, 2011
Best advice for any newbie is to put dirty guru on ignore, and don't waste your money with an escort agency.
Best advice, bar none.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:01 am on Dec. 10, 2011
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massageslave
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First, thank you to quite a few folks who responded, including several whom I hadn't heard from before. I do appreciate the multiple views and advice.
I need to clarify that it was my own opinion that SOL or blow job bars is not my thing. Basically I'm not an exhibitist, and care way more for fondling, doing it to the GIRL, than for blow jobs, so that is my thoughts on those specific clubs.
Second, Drlove got in touch with me via the PM system, and I will definitely try to arrange to meet up with him. So far the only reason I haven't talked to him was because the darn passport hasn't come yet so I am unable to firm up my arrival time (I know when I WANT to come, it's just can I LEGALLY come by then, etc.). So, I will take the numerous advice given, if it works out that Drlove is available at the time. Thank you all for pointing me to him.
Koolbreez and Quim, I'd like to extend an extra thank you to both of you for your in-depth and very specific suggestions and guide. I am feeling better about that aspect, and along with a tour, will probably do fine. The only hang up I have now is how well communication will go. Not only am I deaf, but I don't have a lot of conversation experience with women. We'll see.
Oh, and I promise, I will definitely write a followup report when I get back from Thailand. That's the least I can do to repay the assistance provided already. Hopefully I will be able to sufficiently convey the amount of fluid that is drooled from both the upper brain, and the lower. 8^)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:08 am on Dec. 10, 2011
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thaiaficionado
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Conversation with the girls usually follows the same progression:
What your name?
Where you from?
Holiday? Working?
Where you stay?
Keep this in mind and you have most of it covered, and farm fresh girls won't speak much English anyway. Nicky, at Living Dolls Showcase in Pattaya, is deaf and also mute. She writes on a tablet to communicate, a smart girl, and her written English is much better than most girls' spoken. There is also a deaf girl at The Office on Soi LK Metro named Taw, not that you should have to restrict yourself to deaf girls, most girls learned English by working in the bar and don't have extensive English vocabularies, although some do take classes. But it's easy to learn the protocol, and I'll bet after a few days you'll be fully adapted.
My first trip to Thailand was 20 years ago, there were no discussion boards like this. I made lots of newbie mistakes, but it was an adventure.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:22 am on Dec. 10, 2011
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Quim
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thaiaficionado's summary of the typical BG conversation is dead on. During my first few visits to LOS I would go to sleep with those questions ringing in my head. Of course, those were the days when I thought it necessary to try to meet every girl in Pattaya before I picked one, so I went through a lot of those "conversations" in a night.
The thing to keep in mind is that, like in the real world, these "conversations" are more about flirting than they are about imparting real information. Sure, she may actually want to know what country you are from (national stereotypes), and you may actually want to know whether she has kids (to evaluate the chances of her still having a tight pussy). But the truth is that it no longer matters what she asks me, or what I ask her, as long as we are having some friendly interaction on some level. We could be playing paddy cakes for all I care.
Because on an informational level, all you are really trying to figure out is, do I like her, and does she like me. We all have different "vetting" styles, and you will have to figure out what yours is. Some guys like to ask a lot of explicit questions (will you smoke me, do you like anal, can I come on your face, etc.). I don't tend to do that unless she is a ST FL or a Russian. I like taking my chances and mostly trust in the chemistry. Whatever your preference, just keep in mind what your goal is.
For example, since I am a serial molester, my goal in every conversation is not only to determine whether we like each other (chemistry), but it is also to loosen her up enough that I can play a little (or a lot) in the bar (while I decide whether I want to f*** her). Because remember, just because you bought her a drink does not mean (in most bars) that you can just start groping her. And even if you technically can (e.g., in a "grope" bar), it is going to be a lot better and more fun if you can get the chemistry going.
How you do this is again up to your individual style. But I find that what works best for me is to get them smiling and laughing, even if they are laughing at me. Again, it is not about communicating, it is about flirting, letting them see that you are a nice guy (or at least making them think that you are), while touching them, kissing them, etc., on an escalating scale to determine whether the two of you play well together.
(We all have different rules of the road, but I will rarely take a girl out of a bar unless she will kiss and touch me in the bar first. And because I am a serial molester, much of the time all I want to do is play with them in the bar and move on to the next flower.)
My apologies if I am telling you things you already know all too well as a deaf person, but thinking back to my days of not knowing more than a few words of Thai, the goal is to find ways to "communicate" without having to use so many words. That's why I prefer the term flirting, because it really doesn't matter how you do it. The nice thing is that if you follow some of the basic rules (be respectful, buy LDs, smile a lot, grope lightly in the beginning), you will never have a friendlier and more forgiving audience on which to try out your budding flirtation skills.
I think this has already been mentioned elsewhere as part of the advice given, but it bears repeating in this context. The old adage about the girls responding to your mood and approach is never truer than in LOS. If you are relaxed and having a good time, the girls in your company will generally respond similarly (and if they don't, that's a warning sign, move on). If you feel all anxious and desperate about finding your f*** for the night, they are generally not going to respond well to that.
So the trick is to stay relaxed, enjoy the interaction, even if the communication is imperfect, even if it doesn't go anywhere, because it doesn't have to. You are there to enjoy every minute of your time in paradise, not only the ones where you are f***ing your brains out (although those are good moments too).
Perhaps this is just my long winded way of saying, don't worry so much. You will do just fine interacting with TGs as long as you have fun. And trust me, it is very hard not to enjoy it. 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:34 am on Dec. 10, 2011
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dirty guru
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Just be mindful those that throw stones...etc
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:32 pm on Dec. 10, 2011
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massageslave
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thaiaficionado and Quim, thank you for some good advice. TA, I am not heading to Pattaya (or at least, currently have no plans to) so I probably won't get to meet Nicky, which sucks because I do like smart girls. But, I do intend to try and find a deaf gal at least one night, because it's sort of like "supporting my peeps" kind of thing. And Quim, lots of what you said seems really smart, a mentor to student type lessons that I do see as being valuable.
I have "spoken to (i.e. PMed) " DrLove, and will probably be taking a tour with him in the beginning of my trip. I will probably whip a quick one the first night or so (I mean, damn it, 11 years without sex is entirely too long, ANY sex at all is going to be great), but then try and take the advice given, and simply relax and go with the flow, not feeling like I have to score every 3 hours, etc.
I was out and about today, and had a thought. In Thailand, do the ladies like beards or not? I happen to be fully bearded at the moment (it's 30 something degrees, I need all the heat help I can get), but know that in some cultures beards aren't enjoyed. What's the case in Thailand?
And I plan to go clothes shopping the first few days in Bangkok, and someone had the great idea of taking a gal with me to do the haggling, etc. Does anyone have any advice as to how to determine a good person to take shopping? Clearly shopping/haggling is a different skill set than sex, so I'm pondering how I am going to find a gal to LT for the purpose of shopping, eating, and what the hell, have sex with after it's all over. 8^) Anyone have someone to recommend for that type of event?
Khob Khun Mak Khrap (Cop Coon Mark Crup) to everyone, the advice has been very helpful.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:22 pm on Dec. 12, 2011
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thaiaficionado
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Facial hair is not really popular in Thailand, and I would think twice about taking a bar girl shopping. They seem to think that everything bought with a credit card is free.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:39 pm on Dec. 12, 2011
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bkkz
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Quote: from massageslave on 10:22 am on Dec. 13, 2011
so I'm pondering how I am going to find a gal to LT for the purpose of shopping, eating, and what the hell, have sex with after it's all over.
For me it's the reverse, we have sex first, and then some more, then get up for food and then do some shopping. ... rinse and repeat.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:31 am on Dec. 13, 2011
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