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China Sailor
Your words led me to think actually how well they applied to myself. After chasing, playing, enjoying so long in the P4P arena I doubt very much I can be "rehabilitated." I think Traveller7777 might well head down the same road given that, on his own admission, he had never ever "played" in his home town, never ever been to a strip joint even, and that what he is doing today might well shock his friends. The key here is Traveller7777 loved his experience so intensely he fell in love with the 18 year old angel. I recall my own past there  And here I am today, an incurable. Traveller7777 would be better off taking more time to understand himself and the feelings he is experiencing now.
That post of yours which I quoted from and Meatywsg's observations, I think, are wonderfully apposite. If I had to put those observations in a nutshell, and carry it around in my cellphone as an alarm tone whenever I am falling in love with a massage girl or a bar girl (which still keeps happening -- damn, can't forget that Climax girl from my last trip), it would read: "You can take the girl out of P4P but you cannot take P4P out of the girl."
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:39 am on Nov. 4, 2011
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Quote: from China Sailor on 3:59 am on Nov. 4, 2011
when you spend night after night screwing one girl after another you eventually become jaded.
Mileage varies from person to person - speak for yourself.
P4P is no place for people that seek to define themselves through others, or those that *need* a relationship.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:54 am on Nov. 4, 2011
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bkkz
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Quote: from Kaymanx on 1:39 pm on Nov. 4, 2011
"You can take the girl out of P4P but you cannot take P4P out of the girl."
Unless she gets out of it herself. I know a few girls who have gotten out it and are still out of it. Only time will tell...
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:01 am on Nov. 4, 2011
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I know at least 20 marriages that are solid and going strong and the woman completely changed -
One or two amazed me -
Some sinister bitches from nana now loving mums and smiles 8 feet wide-
There are "no absolutes"
Some work some dont-
I dont advice it as I lost 2- 3 times before getting a regular Thai wife - meaning non P4p
But we all end up paying
Hookers are just more up front
But its the punter he needs to think carefully if he is a silly boy with his heart on sleeve he will burn : :
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:18 am on Nov. 4, 2011
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Edge
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Man, how many times we had this discussion. Thailand gotta a lotta poor people, ya don't have to go Suk for a P4P. I've been in country places having a beer at the local bar or karaoke and P4P is on offer everywhere.
Lotsa girls take it as an earner and get on with their life. They still good girls man, family, kids an all.
Me, love it, good mates, good job, lotsa pussy, I'm with the duck on mileage.
Come 2 think of it, same same for PI, Cambo, Mexico.......
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:25 am on Nov. 5, 2011
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Quote: from Meatywsg on 2:34 pm on Nov. 3, 2011
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She could have chosen a Freelance bar, hanging out with friends, scoping customers, free to go with whoever she fancies, free to decline whoever she does not, if the rents not due tomorrow.
She could have chosen Karaoke, going with slim, handsome, Thai boys, but for smaller returns..you mentioned she;s from CM, if she;s a-typical there's a lot of call for that in Thai circles.
She could have chosen Go-go, dancing naked, free to go with who she chooses, generally.
She could have chosen Bar Beer, laid back, chatty, flirty, and again free to go with who she chooses, generally.
BUT SHE CHOSE A FULL SERVICE OILY
She does not get to choose
Her job is to be picked by whoever wants her, whatever shape, size, length, girth, colour, smell, he picks, she smiles.
Then she has to make him feel like he;s the only one she's ever wanted, for between 1-2hrs, succumbing to his every sexual demand, even french kissing, despite his cigarette stained breath, he wants to get on top, his 125kg weight pinning her to the bed as he thrusts into her, again trying to stick his tongue in her mouth.
She continues, singing great songs, making him feel like king, making him feel good, whatever he looks or feels or smells like.
THIS IS HER JOB. This is what SHE CHOSE TO DO...
From all the alternatives she had available to her when entering P4P she accepted entering FS Massage, where she has no say and is simply picked out and must please no matter what. A FS oily girl would be the biggest type to avoid for me.
Meatywsg and I haven't agreed often in the past but we do here. It's something too many guys don't consider - the difference in mentality between a girl who chooses a job where she has more choice over customers, what she does with them, who chooses a job where she will get to know farangs by talking to them, socialising outside the work-place, etc, and one who simply doesn't care about all that. She doesn't care what you look like, she doesn't care how you act, she doesn't care if you make her laugh, show her new things. She has chosen to take anyone who pays the fee. She just doesn't care about anything else...
Personally, I've lived with a girl who worked in a place where she gave herself many choices and a girl who didn't, who just cared about the money more. I know which was easier!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:38 am on Nov. 12, 2011
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