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samthedog
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shanghaisnap
The concept of "Hostess" on 33 is an interesting one.
Not all the bars use them.
Normally these are senior and more sensible girls who are more trusted by the owner and/or mama san to keep the place "sweet".
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE believe me, she is not the normal definition of a nice girl...... they are ALL "nice girls".
Look - they are girls working in bars to meet guys and take it the next step. 33 is more subtle, the girls are normally more intelligent, "nicer" better company, speak english, can go to a club or restaurant, yes!
She has done it many, many times before you. I might probably know her. So will many bro's on the forum.
If she is a Hostess, then she is more level headed and more sensible, more intelligent, more able to handle a bad situation, or a bad client, make people pay for their bills, sort out any fracas, look after the owners bar, etc.etc.etc. Get it?
OK?
NOW if she clicked, then she will also look after you, be more intelligent, nicer, etc.etc. She is not looking for a bang and a buck... she is looking for someone who can "take care of her". If you can manage this with grace and style, with class and intelligence, then she will love you for it, show fantastic gratitude, and make all your dreams come true if she can.
Good luck, fill your boots. enjoy.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:02 am on Aug. 12, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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Snap,
Sounds like you dumped some fairly serious digits on this girl, like 1500 THB/night just on a barfine is more than many brothers would pay a girl per night, all inclusive, for LT if she's hanging out for a few days. That would be the one caveat I can see, is that maybe she knows she's got a free spender on the line, which tends to blur the line between whether she really likes you or just thinks you're a sucker who'll give her lots of money.
If the next email says she needs money, then that's all you need to know right there.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 11:05 am on Aug. 12, 2004
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samthedog
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HarryParatestes
"If the next email says she needs money, then that's all you need to know right there."
Yes! Riight on!
BUT
I think not... she is very probably better than this.
33 is full of cuties who are looking for the long term. The "please send me some money, the buffalo is dead" is more of a Nana Plaza ploy?
And about the comment about "you dumped some fairly serious digits on this girl, like 1500 THB/night just on a barfine"
Welcome to soi 33, my friend! that is why the girls are "nice" yes?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:28 am on Aug. 12, 2004
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manowar
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Shanghaisnap,
I really enjoyed soi33 like you. On my last trip to BKK, I did not even bother going to MPs or NEP. Soi33 is more relaxing and I agree with you, with better quality of girls. For those who enjoy "companioship " rather than just raw sex, it's the destination of choice. For me, I think they are well worth the BF of 1,500 because the steeper BF keeps the" Cheap Charlie" out of the game and thus provide a more "exclusive" fun with the girls. The thought of some gogo girls doing 2-4 STs a night and you maybe the 4th guy that night just do not sit well with me. I have also found that there are a good number of " Part-timer" at soi33. They are almost non-professional in their attitude which makes the "GFE" even more real. I met a couple of them last time, and it was like they could have been the " good girls" that you were lucky enough to meet on the BTS or the local coffee house. Some of the " part-timer" only works like a couple of days a week on random basis. This is my favorite kind of girls because they either do it for fun or "supplemental income". I would not be surprised if your honey is a part-timer and $$ is just not all that important to her. Let us know the next chapter of your sage. What is the message in her email ? We are holding our collective breath.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:02 am on Aug. 13, 2004
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shanghaisnap
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Guys
Thanks for the feedback and all things you say about hostess' ring true with my experience.
Under no illusions that my beauty has not done this before, and thanks to reading alot of posts etc am keeping a level head on the whole situation.
Funny thing is she had an opportunity to milk me for some money while I was BKK.... told me about a friend who had borrowed a substantial amount and was being difficult about giving it back... I told her if there was anything I could do to help her I would. Admit that I laid the offer out there as test and she did not ask for any financial help - all she said was thank you and then asked my advice on how I would approach the problem.... Admit I was relieved as if she asked me to help by "lending" her the money I know I was being played. The paranoid
Maybe I did pay too much for BF but from reading on Soi 33 THB1500 over a weekend does not seem to above the mark - maybe I could have negotiated harder etc - but when I think that there was no hand out for any tips it makes me feel that I was not seen as just an atm. As for the places we went etc - alot of the dinners were either at very local restaurants or even her favourite street vendors as we both laughed alot how all the best food is on the street and the stupid people pay so much for bad food in fancy places - (not that I am cheap bastard - happy to pay over odds for food - but it has to great food and not paying for some architects wank on a restaurant). Sorry I digress...
Am still waiting for her email with her news... all I know is that she thinks it is something I should know about her past and that it is important to her that she tells me as she wants to be honest with me....
Don't worry guys, once I find out I will share the news...
Again thanks for feedback and for not just dismissing my posts as the ravings of a yet another sucker in BKK. Maybe the situation will play that way, maybe it won't....
Cheers
snap.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:49 am on Aug. 13, 2004
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ftumch
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Shanghaisnap
I concur with the other guys. There is no such thing as a "nice" girl on 33 (if she was "nice" she wouldn't be working there).
You seem to have your head on your shoulders so you shouldn't get taken. Having said that I did big time (I will give you my story in the next couple of days when I have plucked up courage).
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:29 am on Aug. 13, 2004
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shanghaisnap
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ftumch,
Sorry to hear you have had a bad experience.
If it is any consellation I have been taken before as well but not by BG but by ex-girlfriend (western woman), as I sure many forum member can attest.
The way I look at is there good and bad people everwhere, and sometime what a person is doing to earn money and get by does not necessarily cast a shadow over their worth or the quality of the person.
I guess for me I still look for the good in people until they prove otherwise - maybe this makes me a good mark for angelic BG's (and no that is not a contradiction in terms) but I believe we have greater chance of wonderful rewards....
Throughout the whole time I was with my soi33 beauty we kept saying to each other we know we have not met in a "real" environment.
Your point about "nice" girl is interesting - reasonates with the reasons why she told me for working there and not staying with her previous office job.
Take care
snap
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:45 am on Aug. 13, 2004
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shanghaisnap
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Drum roll please....
Well heard from my Soi33 angel over the weekend and can report that the other shoe has not dropped.
No requests for money etc just a longish email telling me about her past - married before (x husband has remarried) and her young son.
We had follow up tele cons where I got the full story. Will not go into details as she told me alot in confidence. Also shared my past and history as well - ex wife, ex girlfriends etc.
Her email was very sweet and honest and she left it open for me to contact her again or not contact her if her news upset me.
Cannot actually believe the level of honesty and no hesistation in revealing alot about our past etc. Very different to the light fun conversation of previous P4P situations I have been in....
So where to next..... We keep talking and in contact until I am due back in Bangkok on business again in 2-3 weeks...
To all who responded, thanks for advice, comments and occaisonal smack upside my head on what to beware of...
Cheers
snap...
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:30 am on Aug. 15, 2004
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Jafa
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snap,
It looks like you've got a keeper, sort of.
Having said that, I agree with samthedog's idea of a 'nice' girl who works on Soi 33. The definition of 'nice' here is quite different from the definition we use back home (wherever we all may come from), and it is for this reason that I disagree with ftumch's view -- I'm sorry that you had a bad experience, I can't begrudge you that. But objectively speaking, I disagree, because of an encounter over the weekend which also motivated me to contribute to this thread...
I was in a regular club in Khao San Rd one night when I ran into this Soi33 bartender/hostess I used to like some time ago. I went up and said hi, how are you. She gave me a blank look at first and actually didn't remember me. I then reminded her, 'XXbar, i'm Jafa.' She then recalled who I was and we chatted a bit. Seems that she had quit the job a few months ago, around the same time when I stopped going to that bar.
I stopped going for a few reasons, one of them being that I sensed she wasn't interested in me in that way, even though we went out twice after she got off work, no barfine - her ex-bar closes at 1am, and this was when the other clubs still closed at 2am (not like the f**king 1am-ish closing time nowadays), so we were able to hang out somewhere else. And no, I did not sleep with her or even permit myself to touch her, other than in a friendly, unthreatening way - just to see if she was keen on me or not.
The thing is to be able to get a feel of when things are not going to go the way you want it. Yes she did go out with me, but in NO way did I feel that she led me on. She told me about her ex-boyfriend (farang) and some things about him, and I got the impression that she wanted someone who was more in his league (in other words, I was not her type). Yes I liked her quite a bit but I wasn't going to 'lose it' over her.
Anyway, back to the encounter...
She told me that she was looking for a new job. What she'd been doing the past few months or so to survive, I don't know. I don't know if she was telling me the truth or not, but in any case it doesn't matter now. I wish her well.
snap, it looks like you're not totally head over heels in love with your girl, which seems like a good thing so far. So treasure what you have with her, the GFE and the honesty and all. What's more important is that you have your head on your shoulders and your heart in the right place, ie. treating her well.
How far more you go with her, only you can know or sense for yourself, and time will tell.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:11 am on Aug. 15, 2004
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LocalYokul
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this Soi33 seems like more and more of a waste of time to me...
people are going out with broads there and not even getting laid.
what were you expecting ??
to become the Soi33 BG's confidant and best friend...
what a miserable joke.
I hope that ftumch can share with us soon about the reality of this scene, because all you pussies are putting a little too much "rose colored glasses" on it...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:55 am on Aug. 15, 2004
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