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Arramsey
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For all the Forum members who have complained about the two-timing, cheating ways of Thai BGs - read on to realise how good you have it -------
For the past 6 years I have been "sponsoring" a Chinese Mainlander from Yunan Province of China and during these 6 years I have visited and stayed ( for about 7 to 10 days each time ) at least on about 25 occassions.
In short - I have developed a pretty deep insight into the lives, culture and "psyche" of the people in this locality and here are some observations :-
My Chinese Mainlander comes from a "village" ( they call it a Moo Bhan ) which along with 7 or 8 other "villages" is a satellite of a small but well developed township in Yunan Province. From this Moo Bhan alone there are about 50 to 60 girls who currently work in Thailand in P4P. I can verify this number as I have met at least 25 to 30 of them both in their Moo Bhan as well as in Thailand ( Bangkok and Hat Yai ).
I am told that each of the other Moo Bhans have roughly an equal number of girls working in Thailand - which means roughly 400 just from this small township. Multiply this by the number of such townships in Yunan Province alone and the number is mind-boggling.
In the Moo Bhan my girl comes from there are about 70 to 80 households of which 75% are very old, run-down, dirty slum type of houses - BUT about 20 to 25 houses are literally mansions which would not be out of place even in the very up-market areas of Bangkok !! Thease houses have been built by the sponsors ( from Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan ) of some of these girls. And each year about 4 or 5 new mansions are added.
Nearly all these girls have one husband in their Moo Bhan + a minimum of 2 or 3 sponsors whom they service in Thailand. In most cases the husband in the Moo Bhan does not mind and in fact encourages the "wife" to go out and earn more money knowing full well that the "wife" is getting regularly f***ed ( in the mouth, in the c*** and in the arse ) by some Singaporean, Malaysian or Taiwanese guy.
The way these girls juggle their sponsors is a sight to behold, fielding phone calls from each sponsor while putting the others on hold, telling blatant lies to each of the sponsors and making each of them feel that they are the only "MAN" in her life.
Since travelling to this Moo Bhan is extremely time consuming and tiring ( a 6 hour flight from Bangkok and then a 6 hour trip by taxi through winding mountain roads ) most of the sponsors avoid visiting - preferring to see their girls in Thailand.
But on the rare occassions when a sponsor does want to visit - the whole Moo Bhan co-operates in fooling him. The husband and children move out of the house, the house is cleaned out of all signs of any family life, the whole Moo Bhan prepares to tell stories as to how much the girl loves the sponsor and thinks about him and talks about him. He is invited to eat and drink at a few houses and generally gets the idea that he is the cat's whiskers.
Sound somewhat familiar ? Well, from what I have seen I think we guys have it good in Thailand.
So - stop complaining !!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:18 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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SHEIKH14
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i suggest not to sponsor any one every timewhen you need you can get new girl/lady
regards
s a sheikh
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:27 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from Arramsey on 2:36 pm on Oct. 24, 2006
That's kinda interesting - and you found out about all of that because your girl loves only you?
:-P
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:47 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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FP
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I have always wanted to ask.....why do you sponsor a girl? I just do not understand,I am serious,am I missing something?What makes a person want to sponsor a girl?
As for the post,it is something anyone with an average IQ would already know IMHO.And that leads me back to my original question....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:39 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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seajohn
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Good question FP. The closest I've ever come is I had to go back to the States for a couple months some years back and I had a girlfriend whom I sponsored in that period of time. Looking back, do I think she played it straight with me? Who knows. I will always endeavor to avoid that situation again.
From what I've seen among those I've known, one reason guys sponsor (usually newbies or those who had only been to Thailand only as a tourist or for less than a year) is because they have literally fallen head over heels with this girl and believe they are keeping her out of prostituting her body by sending her enough money to live on, whatever that amount is agreed to be, but they have to return to their own country for some time. These types would probably rather be with the girl all the time in Thailand but their work or some other obligation has drug them away and caused this, for them, tragio-romantic situation.
I don't mean to discuss the most common results of this, nor do I mean to suggest that this is the only reason men sponsor (they may be many others), but that's what I've seen mostly.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:46 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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fastmover
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Quote: from Arramsey on 2:36 pm on Oct. 24, 2006
For the past 6 years I have been "sponsoring" a Chinese Mainlander
If I may, I knew, as others who have been around the BTF for a while did, that Arramsey had a charmer on the Mainland.
No one sponsers someone for such a long time without some other reason than blind infatuation. I bet Arramsey is not automatically saying his girl was or is the same as the others.
Sometimes the girl is the real thing but her constant environment cause peer and cultural presures, just like us guys have.
On one side you may have Arramsey offering her a change of life but on the other side you have her family, her friends, her neighbors, her village saying 'Why be different'!
You always find yourself pushing your emotions uphill.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:08 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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Jitu
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Some of the Thai influential ppl whom sponsor the girls, thats because they want them young, and they want them mostly all to themselves. They usually spend a fortune in the land of smiles, usually frequenting massages, lounges club, etc. So why not get a hot looking chic and sponser her? They usually are not that stupid as well, they check them from time-to-time
But then again, remember that these guys have more than 1 girl usually, so its hard to keep an eye.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:45 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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bkkz
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Quote: from Arramsey on 2:36 pm on Oct. 24, 2006
But on the rare occassions when a sponsor does want to visit - the whole Moo Bhan co-operates in fooling him. The husband and children move out of the house, the house is cleaned out of all signs of any family life, the whole Moo Bhan prepares to tell stories as to how much the girl loves the sponsor and thinks about him and talks about him.
Wow! That's a lot of effort, a whole community dedicated to creating the illusion for the sponsor!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:30 am on Oct. 24, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from bkkz on 11:48 pm on Oct. 24, 2006
Wow! That's a lot of effort, a whole community dedicated to creating the illusion for the sponsor!
Probably the whole community benefits from all the various sponsor arrangements, so they all pitch in together when one of their kin needs some help - kinda like communism, in action, and working well 
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:56 pm on Oct. 24, 2006
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from Arramsey on 2:36 pm on Oct. 24, 2006
The way these girls juggle their sponsors is a sight to behold, fielding phone calls from each sponsor while putting the others on hold, telling blatant lies to each of the sponsors and making each of them feel that they are the only "MAN" in her life.
This is part of the job description. As long as everyone understands this, everyone is happy. 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:36 pm on Oct. 24, 2006
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