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Hey brother Vinny, nice to hear from the esteemed originator of this topic. It's also nice to hear that some of our Happily Ever After stories have helped to put your mind a little bit at ease where it concerns your friends situation. There's only one problem though. HAPPILY EVER AFTER IS A LONG WAY OFF! Both myself and my twin Balls (DAMN! Did that come out wrong!) are still going through the learning process ourselves and believe me it ain't easy. I guess I shouldn't be speaking for him (Yeah! Don't you have enough voices in your head already?) but I think it's safe to say that we both have enough common sense to keep both of our eyes open and we're patiently, not anxiously, waiting to see if the other shoe is going to drop. I don't know your friend but if he's smart enough to have a caring friend like you on his side then I would have to assume that he is pretty intelligent and not easily taken advantage of. Still as I've said before some of these ladies are very good at acting so the best we can do is give them the trust that they deserve (And wait to see if they'll abuse it), show them kindness and respect and keep your eyes open for falling footware. If you're still a bit uneasy about her and about meeting her then may I make a proposal (Okay, this should be interesting). I will be in Bangkok from Sept. 22 through Sept. 29 (And yes I will be bringing all 29 of my prescriptions so don't worry). Brother Balls will be there also although I don't know the exact dates (Hint, hint), and you'll be there to meet your friends lady for the first time. If we're all going to be there during that particular week, and if Ball's lady can afford to take a break from her studies then may I suggest that we all get together for dinner one day. Maybe if we make this a group thing you will be a little less nervous about meeting her and maybe two guys that have already been there might have a fresh perspective to add. If worse comes to worse at least we'd all have made a new friend and shared a good meal together. I was planning on taking my lady on one of those dinner and sight seeing boat rides on the river one night that week. Two's company, seven (Or eight) sounds like an enjoyable evening (Mr. Joe you should have your mind washed out with soap  ). Think about it guys and let me know what you think. In the mean time Vinny have a little faith. There are a lot of bad apples in Bangkok, but your friend may have picked himself a plum (Okay which one of you guys took over my hand just then and made me write that mush). Peace
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:21 am on Aug. 16, 2002
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cmore
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Hey brother Balls, sorry I won't have the chance to meet my evil twin during my trip. I would suggest that since you're leaving on the 24th that we meet on the 23rd but that's the night that my lady and I are going out on a very special date that we've been planning for weeks. My mental health may be gone but I still value my life so that night is definitely out of the question. Have fun brother and try not to strain yourself too much lifting that heavy fork up to your mouth at meal time . Peace
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:16 am on Aug. 16, 2002
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Ballsburstin
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cmore,
Ditto brother cmore. Since my last night will be Sep 23, she would have me drawn and quartered if I didn't spend it giving her 110% of my romantic attention.
Enjoy your trip, and save me a seat at the table the next time around!
- Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:16 am on Aug. 16, 2002
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MrJoe
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Oh to be young and in love...
Vinny, make no mistake. ÝFor every love story ther are (5, 10, 20?) tragedies. But yes, it must be said that there some happy endings. Ý
In my case, after lots of both, wait for it...I'm in my tenth year of cohabitational bliss and and it just gets better and better. (Permission granted to gag or groan.)
(But stillI'm a pig: I do still desire HOT MONKEE SEX w/ other girls. I know I'm repulsive, what can I do?)
Anyway BallsB and Cmore it does this old cynic's heart good to hear about your romance and may it live on.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:39 am on Aug. 16, 2002
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cmore
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Okay Mr. Joe, you've got me confused (And believe me with this amount of medication that's no longer as easy as it may sound). First off you're talking about HOT MONKEE SEX, while I'm talking about HOT NAKED MONKEE SEX! The two are totally different. Anyone can have HOT MONKEE SEX, but it takes a Jedi master of the highest level to handle HOT NAKED MONKEE SEX! I thought I was ready to handle it. CAN YOU NOW SEE WHY I'M ON MEDICATION. Secondly are you repulsive? No, you're human, AND MALE! Thinking about it is what we do. Not acting on it is what got you elevated to Jedi status. Peace
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:40 am on Aug. 16, 2002
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Balls - thanks for the words of wisdom. I think you are pretty much on the mark. I think the real issue is that Thais have a different definition of love than us farangs do. You gotta get used to it or it is impossible to play the game...
My lady is really sweet, and there is no question she cares for me very much. Otherwise I'll make sure she wins an Academy Award for best actress :-)
But, she did ask me the bigggggg question today -- "will you take care of me?" I knew that was coming as she's had trouble with her job lately (she's not a BG). Never asked directly for money, but we all know what "take care of me" really means, huh?
So, how to play that out? I've been around the block more than a few times and am cautious but to be honest if you care for someone, and you want to help them, what's the harm? As long as it isn't big money, that is... Any advice from those who've been through it before????
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:02 pm on Aug. 16, 2002
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cmore
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Hey Z Man, nice to hear from yet another brother that believes in treating Thai ladies with kindness and respect. I think we're starting to gain on them guys and this is one race that I would love to win. To answer your question Z, I never got the Will you take care of me question from my lady because I decided to give her the answer before she had a chance to ask it. Come on guys, we all know perfectly well that there's a good chance that someday she might end up asking that question so why not beat her to the punch. Instead of waiting weeks, months or even years for that particular shoe to drop why not get it over with and end the suspense now. Want to know what my answer to that question would have been if she had asked? No, I will not take care of you. However it would give me great pleasure to help you to take care of yourself. I understand Z that she's having troubles with her job and finding work (non bar related work) isn't easy, but it also isn't totally impossible. If she's old enough to work she's old enough to take care of herself, but that doesn't mean that we all couldn't stand a little help now and then. You said it best yourself, If you care for someone and you want to help them, then what's the harm. You've just reached apprentice Jedi status. If I were you and you were me (You'd be in a world unlike any you've ever dreamt could possibly exist ) this is the conversation I would have had if my lady had asked me that question. "Honey I know you're worried about losing your job, but I also know that you're a strong, intelligent person and I have no doubt that you'll be able to find a new job soon. In the mean time I want to do as much as I can to help so until you do find a new job I will chip in as much as I can afford to help you pay your bills. Just remember that I too have bills to pay and that what I give you, even if it may not seem like much, comes from the heart. And if you show me how capable I know you are by finding another job very quickly then I would be happy to continue to help you by adding what I can to your salary so that maybe you could move into a better place or send a little extra home to your family each month. How does that sound honey?" Want to know what her reaction would be to this? There isn't a brother on this earth that can answer that one for you. I've said it before and I'll say it again. Showing these ladies a little kindness and respect goes a long way. Why? Because it's not something that most of them have ever experienced before, especially on a level that high. For a man, especially a foreigner, to show her that he cares about her so much that he would put himself at risk just to help her during her time of need and continue to help her after her situation has improved... Well like I said no one can say what her reaction would be. Care to find out? Peace
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:44 pm on Aug. 16, 2002
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zzzZ
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cmore -- good stuff..couldn't agree more. my tactic is very similar. i don't like to just blindly help people..i am not a charity. however, it appeals to me greatly to enable people to help themselves. like buy her a better computer, help her find a job with connections that i might have, paying for english school, and, in the interim, help with some bills. that's a much better approach. just blindly saying "sure, here's $500 a month" is nothing sort of stupid...
i'm only in bkk about 5 days every 6 weeks, so it's pretty tough to maintain a relationship, but we're both making a go of it. god knows we could both easily have other people, so i think there must be something there if we both want to try...
anyway, thanks for the excellent words of wisdom!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:08 am on Aug. 17, 2002
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MrJoe
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Ah yes grasshoppers. The principles of which you speak were covered in the lesson "The Difference between being Khon Dee (good person)and being a "Spon-ngo" (a combo of sponsor and the Thai word for idiot.)" If one acts like the first, one is treated as such. If one acts like the second, one is thought of as such. Contemplate-Exhale-Ohmmmm...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:42 am on Aug. 17, 2002
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